You might have plenty of sexual experience, but that doesn’t mean you know everything there is to know about physical intimacy with a guy. If you’re a straight woman who sleeps with straight men, things probably don’t seem all that complicated, and you’re right — it’s not all that complicated. However, there are some questions girls want to ask guys about sex that we just haven’t, for whatever reason. Here are just a few of the burning ones that you’d probably like the answers to yourself.
- Do guys measure their penises? We hear a lot of talk about how women care all about size (most of us don’t, for the record), but are guys super obsessed as well? Do you actually get out a ruler or a tape measure and see how long your penises are? Inquiring minds would love to know.
- Does it really matter how many guys a girl has slept with? We know some guys are judgmental or feel insecure at first if the woman they’re with has slept with more people than them, but does this really matter deep down? Do you have negative knee-jerk reactions but deep down know that it’s not all that important or do you really get hung up on this?
- Do you prefer no pubic hair or a bush? This will likely differ from guy to guy, but do you have a preference when it comes to women’s pubic hair? Do most guys prefer it shaved nearly completely off or can a massive bush be a turn-on too?
- Do different sexual positions feel different or is it all for novelty? Does it feel different to have sex doggy-style than it does when you’re in missionary or is it all just to boost your ego and to change things up so you don’t get bored?
- Do you lose respect for a girl if she has sex with you on the first date? Even if you’re down for it and trying to put the moves on a girl, do you judge her for having sex with you right away and does it make you lose respect for her? Does having sex on the first date make you less likely to see her again?
- Is it uncomfortable to have a penis and balls? I mean, they’re just… hanging there. Surely that has to be uncomfortable when you’re trying to wear jeans or when you’re running? Does wearing tighter underwear help with this or is that painful too?
- Do you care about stretch marks, uneven boobs, etc? Women are definitely insecure about our bodies, but do all the little things we hate about them bother you too? Do you care if we have stretch marks or if our boobs aren’t all that perky or do you not even notice when we’re in the heat of the moment?
- Does every vagina feel different? Can you really tell the difference between different vaginas or do they all pretty much feel the same? Do you know when we’re “loose” or is that just slut-shaming BS guys use when they’re awful/feeling insecure about not being as sexually experienced?
- Is it really possible for you to have sex without feelings? Most women prefer to have an emotional connection with the men we sleep with, but can men really just turn all that off and have sex even though you feel nothing for the person you’re having sex with?
- Why are you always touching your junk? Seriously, why do you always have your hands down your pants? Why are you always adjusting your junk and just holding it all the time? Do you realize you’re doing this or is it entirely subconscious?
- Do you like giving a girl oral sex? Women like receiving oral sex, obviously, but do you like giving it? Do you do it just to make us happy or do you get pleasure from it too? If you don’t like it, why not? If you do, what is it about eating a girl out that you’re into?
- Do you know when a girl is faking an orgasm? Most of us feel like we’re pretty convincing in this department, but do you ever know when we’re faking it but feel too awkward to bring it up? Is it ever obvious or are you so focused on your own pleasure that you don’t realize that we definitely haven’t come?
- Do guys like to be teabagged? What does it feel like when a girl puts her balls in her mouth? Is there actually anything pleasurable about this or do you just like the fact that this is still somewhat taboo?
- Why do guys enjoy eating ass? If this is something you’re into, why? No kink-shaming is involved in this question, but many of us are genuinely curious about what can be pleasurable about doing this, especially since it seems so unhygienic.
- Do you like dirty talk during sex? Do you think it’s weird to engage in dirty talk during sex or does it heighten the experience and make it even more pleasurable? Do you like to be the one doing the dirty talk or do you like women to start it off?
- Do you wipe your penis after peeing ever? I mean, do you? Also, do you wash your hands after going to the bathroom since you’re touching sweaty bits that have been inside hot boxers/underwear/pants all day?
- Do you care if a girl swallows or not after a blowjob? Does it really matter what a girl does with your sperm after she’s given you a blowjob? Does it somehow reduce the enjoyment if she decides to spit it out rather than swallow or does it really not matter?
- Do guys really think about sex all the time? Surely it can’t be all the time… right?
