The Right Guy Will Give You These Things Without You Having To Ask

When you’re dating the right guy, everything fits. That doesn’t mean it’ll always be easy, but it does mean that your partner will give you these 13 important things without you even having to ask—it’ll be automatic.

  1. Unfiltered honesty even when lying would be easier If there’s one thing we all need from our partner, it’s honesty. I’m the girl who wants the absolute truth 100% of the time. I want the truth even when it’s not what I want to hear, even when it hurts. The right guy won’t waste your time with little white or not so white lies. He knows you don’t have time for that. He knows that you can handle the truth and you deserve it.
  2. Complete trust without jealousy or suspicion A protective man is a keeper but an overbearing man definitely isn’t. The right guy will trust you. He’ll respect your decisions, he’ll listen to your advice, and if what you’re doing (bungee jumping, skiing, reading) or where you’re going (road trip, girls’ night, shopping spree) isn’t what he wants to do, he won’t see that as a reason to stop you. He’ll trust you to do what you have to and be there to hear all about it when you get back!
  3. Equal ground The right guy won’t make you feel like you have any less of a say in your relationship than he does. He won’t make you feel like you have less of a say than him in anything for that matter! The right guy puts you on a pedestal that’s as high as the one you have him standing on. You’ll be on equal ground and that’s the way it should be!
  4. Respect even if he doesn’t agree with your perspective, belief, etc. The right guy will give you some of the old R-E-S-P-E-C-T without you having to ask for it. He’ll respect your ideas, your likes and your dislikes. He won’t force you to do anything you don’t want to or be someone other than who you are. Every woman deserves a guy who adores her, yes, but more importantly, she deserves a man who respects her.
  5. Commitment, plain and simple The right guy won’t be the guy that’s not ready for the relationship. He’s not the guy who changes the subject whenever you start to talk about the future. The right guy will give you the commitment you deserve. He’ll be committed to making you happy and being there for you and isn’t interested in his exploring his options because he knows he’s already found the best one for him.
  6. Exclusivity without the wandering eye Dating multiple people at once is a big no-no and the right guy won’t subject you to that crap. He won’t date you while texting Debbie from marketing into the early hours of the morning about nothing to do with marketing. He won’t be sitting across from you at dinner while swiping right and left on Tinder. The right guy will have eyes only for you and why shouldn’t he? You’re gorgeous and he knows it!
  7. Romance I’m not going to promise you that the right guy will shower you with red roses every second week. The truth is some guys just aren’t that great at romance. But grand romantic gestures aside, the right guy will give you romance in the little things. There’ll be romance in the genuine words he says, the kisses on your forehead, the warm embrace at the end of a tough day at work and yes, the occasional bouquet of flowers. The right guy knows that romance means something to you and so he’ll do his best give it to you.
  8. Consistent effort without having to be prodded With the right guy, you won’t be the one that puts in the most effort in the relationship. You won’t have to be the one who puts in all the effort because the right guy will meet you half way and over. He’s willing to go the extra mile because he knows that’s what a healthy, thriving relationship takes—and he knows you’re giving the same in return.
  9. Regular reminders that not all guys will break your heart When the right guy comes along strolling into your life, you can kiss all your past heartbreaks and relationship disappointments goodbye. The right guy’s going to outshine all the other guys that came before him. He’ll love you like no other guy ever has. With the right guy, your heart will forget every guy who came before.
  10. Encouragement to be your best possible self On those days when life throws you curve ball after curve ball, the right guy won’t let you feel sorry for yourself. He’ll force you out of bed on the days you don’t feel like getting up because the right guy will see your potential. He believes in you and he won’t stop until he makes you believe it too. P.S.
  11. His time, no matter how busy he is The right guy won’t give you one-word answers or say he’ll call you later but then never do it because he’s too busy. He’s never too busy for you. He’s never too busy for you. You’re a priority and he’ll make sure you know it. The right guy will be there for you rain, hail or shine. He’ll give you his time of day. Hell, he’ll give you all the time in the world.
Disney and life combined have made a starry eyed dreamer out of me. And I refuse to wake up.

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