10 Types Of Intimacy Every Woman Should Experience At Least Once In Her Life

If you’re making love the same way each time your clothes come off, then you’re doing it wrong. Intimacy should be fun and fresh. There are dozens of different ways to do the deed, so it shouldn’t be repetitive. If you’re struggling to keep things exciting, here are some suggestions of things to try.

  1. Making love in public. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can do it on the beach or in the middle of a football field. If you’re a little shy, try doing it in your car or in a public restroom. Either way, doing it in a popular spot will get the adrenaline pumping through your body. That can result in the best intimate experience of your life.
  2. Going through the back door. It’s not as dirty and disgusting as it sounds. Some women actually prefer this to “traditional” love-making, so you might as well try it at least once. Even if your guy has never mentioned it before, he’s secretly dying to try it, so you won’t be judged.
  3. Roleplaying. You’re committed to your partner, but that doesn’t mean that you can’t have fun with other people. Instead of cheating, you should dress yourselves up in costumes and take on different personas. Then you can feel the excitement of sleeping with someone new while remaining loyal to your favorite man.
  4. Angry love-making. The last thing you want to do when you’re mad at your guy is sleep with him. However, that’s when you can have the most animalistic intimacy of your life. Before you two swap apologies, try rolling around in bed. By the time you’re done, you might even forget why you were mad in the first place.
  5. Making love in the shower. Sure, you’ll risk slipping, hitting your head, and having your lady parts dry out, but it’ll all be worth it. There’s nothing hotter than seeing your guy with soap all over his abs. Plus, the sound of the water will drown out your sounds, so you can be as loud as you want.
  6. Make-up love-making. The only good thing about arguing with your guy is that you’ll get to have make up after it’s all over. The transition from hating his guts to loving the way he feels inside of you will send shivers down your spine.
  7. Making love in the morning. Don’t wait until nighttime to slip beneath the sheets with your partner. First thing in the morning, before you brush your hair or your teeth, make a move on your guy. He won’t see it coming, and spontaneous intimacy is the best intimacy.
  8. Meaningless intimacy. One-night stands are underrated. Sure, you want to find a man to marry one day, but for now, you should enjoy the satisfaction of one-night stands. Finding an attractive stranger to sleep with and never calling him again can make you feel more beautiful and powerful than ever.
  9. Drunk love-making. You don’t want to drink so much that you become sloppy. You just want enough alcohol in your system to make you lose your inhibitions. That way, you won’t be feeling self-conscious while you roll around in bed. You’ll be able to say all the naughty things you want to say and do all the things you want to do without second-guessing yourself.
  10. Selfish love-making. Nine times out of 10, you should give and receive equally. Of course, every once in a while, you should be able to lay back and relax while your partner does all of the work. Let him treat you the way you deserve to be treated, and you can repay him some other day.
Holly Riordan is a writer from Long Island, New York who has authored several science fiction and horror books. A graduate of Stony Brook University, she has spent nearly a decade writing for publications including Thought Catalog, Huffington Post, Teen Vogue, and more. You can find her on Instagram @hollyrio and Twitter @hollyyrio.