Undeniable Signs You’re Going To Find Love Very Soon

You may have been single for a long time, but it’s quite possible your time rolling solo is coming to an end. If you’ve been wondering when you’ll finally meet a great guy or woman and settle down in a happy, loving relationship, I have good news for you. If you notice these signs, you’re going to find love sooner than you think.

  1. You have your act together. You’ve done the hard work on building a life you love and are proud to live. You’re actively working towards some incredible career goals, you have plenty of hobbies and interests, you’ve cultivated an incredible group of supportive friends, and life is going really well for you. You’re in a good place for a relationship, which is one of the biggest signs that you’re going to find love very soon.
  2. You continue to put yourself out there. It would be so much easier if your dream partner just came and knocked on your door without you having to put much effort into it, but that’s not the way the world works and you know it. You realize that in order to find love, you’re going to have to get off the couch and leave your house sometimes. Not only that, but you regularly put yourself in positions where you could meet people, even if just on a friendly basis.
  3. You’re not jaded despite your disappointments. No doubt you’ve gone out with or been involved with plenty of liars, losers, and other terrible people and had tons of terrible experiences in the dating world. However, that hasn’t stopped you from believing that love exists and it’s out there and that you deserve it. This is one of the biggest signs you’re going to find love – you still have faith in it.
  4. You have high emotional IQ. It takes a long time to develop emotional intelligence, and it only comes with experience and yes, even heartbreak. This allows you to be a more sympathetic, caring, compassionate person who knows how to listen and deeply understand other people. This is a skill that’s so necessary when it comes to a relationship. Once you have it, you’re in good stead.
  5. You believe love is out there. Of all the signs that you’re about to find love, this is perhaps the most important. If you want it, you have to know deep within yourself that it exists and that it’s going to come to you eventually. Hold this knowledge close to your heart and you might be surprised by the results.
Jennifer has been the managing editor of Bolde since its launch in 2014. Before that, she was the founding editor of HelloGiggles and also worked as an entertainment writer for Bustle and Digital Spy. Her work has been published in Bon Appetit, Decider, Vanity Fair, The New York TImes, and many more.