What You Should Know About Dating A Virgo

What You Should Know About Dating A Virgo ©iStock/mediaphotos

Whether you believe in it or not, astrology is pretty cool. It’s always fascinating to learn a bit more about where you come from. Sure, you might not believe every single thing that astrology says about your zodiac sign, but you might find at least a few things that you totally relate to. If you’re a Virgo, you can probably see yourself in at least some of these 10 traits. If you’re thinking of dating a Virgo, just make sure you’re ready.

  1. We like things a certain way. Call us annoying, but if you move even one object in our apartment, we’re going to be waiting for you to leave so we can put everything back in its rightful place. Sorry. We still like you, we’re just super into keeping our places neat and tidy. It’s just a Virgo thing.
  2. We’re very logical. My entire life, I’ve hated things that don’t make any sense, whether a school assignment or a movie or a fight with a close friend. I never knew why until I realized that’s a very Virgo trait. We love logic and knowing the reasons behind something, and we won’t rest until we find answers. So I’m not crazy after all, it was just written in the stars. This might also explain my great love for mysteries in book and TV form.
  3. We know what we want. Call us intelligent, call us professional – whatever word you want to use, it’s clear that we can easily decide what we want to do with our lives. Deciding to go back to school, changing jobs, moving in with our boyfriends – whatever it is, we decide what we want and go for it.
  4. We’re total planners. I’ve always found it hard to be spontaneous and I can chalk it all up to my Zodiac sign. I like knowing what I’m doing a week or even more in advance, I hate last-minute plans and I don’t understand why some people are so bad at making plans.
  5. We can solve any problem. Virgos are considered super logical thinkers who are total problem solvers. If you’re going through something big or small, your Virgo girlfriend will be there to help.
  6. We can seem judgmental but want to help. Look up any Zodiac book or website and you’ll see Virgos described as people who have no issues analyzing their friends and family. We definitely do that but if you’re upset with us, know that we don’t mean any harm – we really do want to help you out.
  7. We’re super loyal. Whether to our friends or the boys we date, we’ll never let you down. We’ll always be there for you and you won’t believe how loyal we are.
  8. We care too much about perfection. Everyone has their flaws and every Zodiac sign has flaws too, of course. Virgos are total perfectionists and this can be a real issue sometimes. We’re hard on ourselves and were the type of students who read an essay over about nine million times to be absolutely sure there were no typos or errors. Making mistakes is really hard for us. If you’re dating us, you might not want to gloat too much if you win a bet and you probably don’t want to flat-out tell us that we’re wrong.
  9. We’re pretty stubborn. For better or for worse, once we make our mind up about something, good luck trying to get us to change our minds. Being stubborn can be bad sometimes but it’s actually pretty helpful. We stand behind our choices and aren’t afraid to believe in ourselves.
  10. We’re the definition of independent. If you can handle a strong, independent woman, you can do a lot worse than dating a Virgo. We might seem a bit stand-offish at first but that’s because we only truly open up when we get to know you. So take the time and it’ll be worth it.
Aya Tsintziras is a freelance lifestyle writer and editor from Toronto, Canada. In addition to writing about dating and relationships for Bolde, she also writes about movies, TV, and video games for ScreenRant and GameRant. She has a Political Science degree from the University of Toronto and a Masters of Journalism from Ryerson University. You can find her on Twitter @ayatsintziras and on Instagram @aya.tsintziras.