Why Guys Will Love Dating A Free-Spirited Woman

Why Guys Will Love Dating A Free-Spirited Woman ©iStock/Energyy

Being a free-spirited woman comes with its positives and negatives. On the one hand, women who define themselves as free spirits tend to be just a little bit different than most, and standing out can often be difficult. On the other hand, they’re taking life by the reins and don’t aim to please anybody but themselves. If you’re dating a free-spirited woman, you’re in for a treat. Here’s why:

  1. We always have our own thing going on. A free-spirited woman is a busy woman. It’s not because we’re building up our resume, but it’s because we’ve got a broad range of genuine interests that we love to explore.
  2. We’re spontaneous. We live large, and we don’t hold back. We do what we want, when we want. When you date us, you’ll have no choice but to get in on the action; get ready for last-minute adventures!
  3. We’ll challenge you in ways you never thought possible. Our minds are working at warp speed, and we’re always dreaming up random questions for you to ponder and philosophize over.
  4. We don’t depend on you for validation. It’s not necessarily that we’re totally self-confident and think everybody loves us; it’s just that frankly, my dear, we don’t give a damn. If you like us, that’s great! If you don’t, that’s OK, too. Nobody’s forcing you to stick around, but we’d love to have you along for the ride.
  5. We’ll keep you feeling young. Whether it’s kicking off our shoes for a picnic in the park, driving up to the beach on a moment’s notice, or flying a kite, we’re always seeking to create the magical from the mundane. Hanging around us will keep you fun-loving and youthful.
  6. We don’t feel the need to conform to arbitrary societal standards. We hate feeling restricted, and we know that we don’t need to worry about pleasing others just to abide by imaginary rules.
  7. We’ll keep you guessing. Boredom is anathema to us, and we avoid it at all costs. If you’re looking for a weekly-dinner-and-a-movie kind of girl, you’re looking in the wrong place. You’re welcome.
  8. We’re totally comfortable with ourselves. We’re nonconformists, and we got used to being comfortable in our own skin years ago. Keep going out with us and we’ll teach you how to be yourself and love yourself.
  9. You can trust us with anything. In spite of some negative stereotypes, free-spirited doesn’t equal flaky. We’re trusting by nature, and that means that we want to be trusted in return.
  10. We’ll always encourage you to follow your dreams. We’re not the girlfriends who’ll push you into fitting your life into a neatly wrapped package tied up with a bow. We’ll encourage you to test your boundaries, to try something that you may fail at, and to make mistakes that will end up enriching your life and your character.
  11. We live life to the fullest. So should you! When you’re with us, we can guarantee that you’ll be exhausted by the end of the day, but in a good way.
  12. We don’t get stressed out by the little things. We know that the big picture is what really matters, and we’re able to overlook the little day-to-day annoyances.
  13. We don’t care what other people think. And why should we? We don’t judge others, and we don’t want anyone judging us.
  14. We always keep a positive outlook on life. We know that there’s meaning in everything, even in setbacks. It’s a great attitude and it’s one that tends to be contagious.
  15. We’re passionate lovers.We’re “all in” in everything we do. We approach life, and love, with unmatched passion, energy, and zeal.
Jessica Levy is a freelance blogger and content writer. She’s also a politics junkie, a fledgling foodie, and a frequent traveler. She has lived in Morocco, Israel, India, and Barbados, and never wants to be cold again. Follow her on Twitter!