I’m Leaving the U.S. for Good, and I’m Not Alone. Here’s Why We’re Escaping & to Where.

I’m Leaving the U.S. for Good, and I’m Not Alone. Here’s Why We’re Escaping & to Where.

1. Why I Made the Agonizing Decision To Leave The America I Once Knew

Part of the “As Told To” series. 

Meet Sarah, 38. Here, she shares her painful decision to leave America and why. 

“I grew up believing America was the land of opportunity and freedom—so I never imagined leaving. But now, my paycheck barely covers the rent, and don’t get me started on the price of eggs. Everything feels like a fight—for our economy, healthcare, safety, and the truth—and now we’re at war with each other.

I researched and learned that many Americans are fleeing to Portugal, Spain, and Mexico. I recently visited Mexico City and fell in love with the vibrant, affordable lifestyle—everyone is so happy there. I met ex-pats who have no regrets about leaving the U.S. My husband, myself, and two kids are relocating;  it’s scary, but staying is more terrifying.” —Sarah Whitman, CA

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2. Lack Of Affordable Healthcare—So They’re Heading To Spain

The U.S. is one of the only developed nations without universal healthcare, and for many, the high cost of medical care is unsustainable. Even with insurance, deductibles, copays, and prescription drug prices can leave people drowning in medical debt. Many Americans live in fear of a single unexpected medical bill bankrupting them.

According to the European Observatory on Health Systems and Policies, Spain’s national health system provides virtually universal coverage, mainly funded by taxes, with care predominantly provided free of charge at the point of delivery. Even private healthcare in Spain is significantly cheaper than in the U.S. Combined with a lower overall cost of living, Spain provides a financially stable alternative for those tired of paying exorbitant medical bills.

3. Skyrocketing Cost Of Living—So They’re Heading To Vietnam

Inflation, housing costs, and everyday expenses have skyrocketed in the U.S., making it increasingly difficult for middle-class Americans to maintain a decent standard of living. Wages haven’t kept up, and for many, the struggle to afford basic necessities has become overwhelming.

According to Forbes, Vietnam has been named the world’s most affordable place to live for the fourth year in a row, with 86% of expats rating the cost of living favorably.  With incredibly low living costs, affordable housing, and cheap but high-quality food, Americans can live comfortably on a fraction of what they would need in the U.S. Many remote workers and retirees are making the move, attracted by Vietnam’s friendly culture, vibrant cities, and affordable healthcare.

4. Political Polarization—So They’re Heading To Canada

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The deep political divide in the U.S. has made life increasingly stressful, with constant arguments, protests, and government gridlock creating an atmosphere of tension. Many Americans are tired of living in a country where every issue feels like a battle.

Canada, known for its more moderate and balanced political climate, is an appealing alternative. The country prioritizes social welfare, has strong gun control laws, and maintains a stable political environment. For those looking to escape the endless political turmoil, Canada offers a calmer, more predictable society.

5. Poor Work-Life Balance—So They’re Heading To France

The American work culture is notorious for long hours, minimal vacation time, and an expectation to always be available. Burnout is rampant, and many people feel they have no time to enjoy life outside of work.

According to France Today, France has some of the most employee-friendly labor laws in the world, including a standard 35-hour work week and a minimum of five weeks of paid holiday annually. Employees are even legally protected from being contacted by their bosses after hours. For those tired of the U.S. grind, France offers a healthier approach to work.

6. Climate Change Concerns—So They’re Heading To Sweden

Wildfires, hurricanes, and extreme temperatures have become increasingly common in the U.S., yet political action on climate change remains slow. For those who prioritize sustainability, moving to a country that takes environmental issues seriously is a top priority.

Sweden is a global leader in green energy and sustainability. The country is heavily invested in renewable energy, has strict environmental policies, and is actively working to combat climate change. For eco-conscious Americans, Sweden provides a forward-thinking alternative.

7. High Crime Rates—So They’re Heading To Singapore

While crime rates vary by city, some Americans no longer feel safe in their own communities. Issues like theft, carjackings, and violent crime have led people to seek out countries with stricter security and lower crime.

Singapore is one of the safest places in the world, with incredibly low crime rates and strict laws that deter criminal activity. The country’s cleanliness, efficiency, and modern infrastructure make it an attractive destination for those looking for security and stability.

8. Expensive Higher Education—So They’re Heading To Germany

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The cost of college in the U.S. has spiraled out of control, leaving students with massive debt that takes decades to pay off. Higher education is often seen as a financial burden rather than a path to opportunity.

Germany, however, offers free or low-cost university education, even for international students. Many Americans are moving to Germany for college, saving themselves from the crushing debt that comes with a U.S. degree.

9. Insufficient Retirement Benefits—So They’re Heading To Panama

Many U.S. retirees struggle to live on Social Security alone, especially as inflation erodes their savings. Healthcare costs and housing prices make retirement more stressful than relaxing.

Panama has become a haven for retirees, offering a low cost of living, warm weather, and a retiree-friendly visa program. With affordable healthcare and an active expat community, it provides a comfortable, budget-friendly alternative.

10. Job Instability—So They’re Heading To New Zealand

The U.S. job market has become increasingly unpredictable, with frequent mass layoffs, stagnant wages, and a growing trend of companies prioritizing short-term profits over long-term employee security. Many workers feel disposable, as industries shift toward automation, outsourcing, and gig-based employment with few benefits. Even in “stable” jobs, the pressure to constantly overperform just to avoid being replaced is exhausting.

New Zealand, on the other hand, provides a far more balanced work environment. The country has strong worker protections, higher minimum wages, and a job market that prioritizes employee well-being. Many industries, including healthcare, education, and technology, are actively recruiting skilled workers from abroad. The emphasis on work-life balance, along with a government that enforces fair labor practices, makes New Zealand an attractive destination for Americans tired of career uncertainty. Here, workers are seen as assets, not liabilities.

11. Lack Of Parental Leave And Childcare Support—So They’re Heading To Norway

The U.S. is one of the few developed nations that does not guarantee paid parental leave, forcing many parents—especially mothers—to return to work just weeks after giving birth. The financial burden of childcare is another major issue, with daycare costs often rivaling rent or mortgage payments. Many families are left scrambling to balance their careers with raising their children, with little to no support from the government.

Norway, on the other hand, is widely recognized as one of the best places in the world to raise a child. The country offers up to 49 weeks of paid parental leave, heavily subsidized childcare, and financial support for families. The work culture is also far more accommodating to parents, allowing for flexible schedules and generous sick leave for when children fall ill. For Americans looking for a society that values families rather than treating parenting as a personal financial struggle, Norway is an obvious choice.

12. Rising Homelessness Crisis—So They’re Heading To The Netherlands

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Homelessness in the U.S. has reached crisis levels, particularly in major cities where housing costs have become unaffordable. Many Americans live just one financial setback away from losing their homes, with rent prices outpacing wage growth. Despite billions of dollars in government funding, homelessness remains a growing issue, as systemic problems like mental health care gaps and unaffordable housing persist.

The Netherlands has taken a proactive, effective approach to tackling homelessness. Through a “housing first” policy, the Dutch government prioritizes providing stable living conditions before addressing other challenges like employment or addiction recovery. This approach has led to significantly lower homelessness rates compared to the U.S. Additionally, social welfare programs ensure that people have access to affordable housing, mental health support, and job opportunities. For Americans tired of watching their country struggle with this issue while other nations have found solutions, the Netherlands is an appealing alternative.

13. Overpriced Housing Markets—So They’re Heading To Portugal

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For many Americans, homeownership feels like an impossible dream. In major U.S. cities, housing prices have soared far beyond what the average person can afford, and even renting requires a disproportionate chunk of monthly income. With corporations buying up properties and turning them into short-term rentals, competition for affordable housing has only worsened.

Portugal, on the other hand, offers a significantly more affordable housing market. Many Americans are moving there for the opportunity to purchase homes at a fraction of the cost compared to cities like New York or Los Angeles. The country has also introduced residency programs that make it easier for foreigners to settle down, such as the Golden Visa program, which offers residency to those who invest in real estate. With a warm climate, lower living costs, and a growing expat community, Portugal is an increasingly popular choice for those looking to escape the overpriced U.S. housing market.

14. Wanting More Social, Community-Driven Culture—So They’re Heading To Mexico

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Many Americans feel isolated in a culture that prioritizes individualism over community. The emphasis on work, productivity, and self-sufficiency often comes at the cost of meaningful human connection. In the U.S., it’s common for people to barely know their neighbors, for friendships to be transactional, and for social interactions to feel rushed or superficial.

Mexico, by contrast, offers a deeply social and community-oriented way of life. Family and friendship networks are strong, and gatherings are a regular part of daily life. The culture encourages people to slow down, prioritize relationships, and engage with those around them. The lower cost of living also means that people aren’t constantly stressed about working long hours just to survive. For Americans who crave a lifestyle built around human connection rather than constant hustle, Mexico provides a much-needed change of pace.

15. Wealth Inequality And Economic Uncertainty—So They’re Heading To Switzerland

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Wealth inequality in the U.S. has reached staggering levels, with a small percentage of the population controlling the vast majority of resources while wages stagnate for the middle and lower classes. Economic uncertainty looms as inflation rises, recessions threaten job security, and access to essential services like healthcare and education remains tied to financial status.

Switzerland, by contrast, offers one of the most stable economies in the world. With high wages, strong labor protections, and an economy that prioritizes social equity, it provides a financial security that many Americans feel is unattainable back home. The country also ranks high in quality of life, with excellent public services, low crime rates, and a strong social safety net. For those looking to escape the growing economic divide in the U.S., Switzerland offers a future that feels far more secure.

 

Natasha is a seasoned lifestyle journalist and editor based in New York City. Originally from Sydney, during a a stellar two-decade career, she has reported on the latest lifestyle news and trends for major media brands including Elle and Grazia.