Why Women Who Are Never Satisfied Make The Best Partners

While never being satisfied is often seen as a bad quality to have, that couldn’t be further from the truth. In fact, women who are always striving for better actually make amazing girlfriends—here’s why.

  1. They’ll never stop putting in the effort. Women who are never satisfied don’t let themselves get too comfortable in a relationship and they never take their partners for granted. They know that in order to keep things healthy, happy, and thriving between you, they need to constantly be putting in the effort to show you exactly how much they care about you and the relationship as a whole.
  2. They won’t give up on you easily. They know and accept that human beings aren’t perfect but that won’t stop them from trying to get as close to it as possible. They’ll hold you to similar standards, accepting your flaws and negative traits but always pushing you to work harder and try better. When you do fall short, they won’t lose faith. Instead, they’ll work at your side to try to solve the problem at hand.
  3. They’re fiercely independent and have full lives outside of the relationship. Women who are never satisfied could never be content with having their partners as the center of their worlds. They want and need more than that to be happy, so you can rest assured that they’ll never get too clingy or needy, nor will they expect you to hang out 24/7 or give you crap for wanting to ditch date night to go out with the guys. They have full, intensely busy lives and that’s just how they like it. It gives your relationship space to breathe so that when you come back together again, it’s just that much better.
  4. They’re always working to better themselves. They believe in their own potential, which means they’re constantly working to fulfill it. It’s a task that’s not likely to be completed in this lifetime, but instead of discouraging them, it actually inspires these women. You never have to worry that you’ll be dating a slacker or an underachiever—these women would never dream of settling.
  5. They’re ridiculously smart, which makes them great conversationalists. Because they’re never satisfied, they’re always seeking knowledge about every subject under the sun and soaking it up like a sponge. Because of this, they’re modern renaissance women who can carry off a conversation on pretty much any topic. It’s incredibly refreshing.
  6. They won’t let you get away with any crap. They don’t suffer fools and they certainly won’t put up with any BS from their partners. Women who are never satisfied know they deserve the best in life and love and they won’t be happy with any less from you. If you upset them or treat them poorly or unfairly, they won’t hesitate to call you out on it. Better yet, they expect the same in return. It’s truly a wo-way street.
  7. They face problems head-on instead of ignoring them or running away. They know better than to let things fester or to ignore little issues that could become much bigger in the future. They prefer to hash things out immediately so that problems can be solved and put to rest. There’s no silent treatment, no passive-aggressive behavior—you’ll know straight up.
  8. They’re always up for an adventure and know how to keep things interesting. Women who are never satisfied can appreciate an occasional night in, of course, but they won’t don sweatpants and ratty t-shirts every night. There’s too much to see and do out in the world and they’d never want your relationship to become stale. Instead, they’re spontaneous, adventurous, and a whole lot of fun.
  9. They’re passionate and love switching things up in the bedroom. This one should go without saying, but their insatiable appetite for everything in life extends to sex too. You won’t just be doing missionary night after night with these women; they’re definitely into switching it up and trying new things to increase your pleasure and their own. They wouldn’t have it any other way.

 

Jennifer Still is a writer and editor with more than 10 years of experience. The managing editor of Bolde, she has bylines in Vanity Fair, Business Insider, The New York Times, Glamour, Bon Appetit, and many more. You can follow her on Twitter @jenniferlstill
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