10 Things That Never Fail To Put A Woman In The Mood

Something as simple as the wind can turn a man on, but women are a bit are more complicated. We need love and affection in order to really get going. Of course, there are a few other things that can do the trick if affection isn’t on the table. If you’re trying to prep yourself for intimacy, here are the things that never fail to put us women in the mood.

  1. Back massages. Or even better, a foot massage. Strangely, the little gestures that don’t have any ulterior motives behind them are what turn us on the most. Why? Because it shows us that our man actually cares about us beyond the bedroom.
  2. Getting pushed against a wall. We don’t want our men to be so rough with us that they leave bruises and scratch marks, but it’s nice to get tossed around a little bit. After all, it’s hot to see him take control. It lets you know that he’s so turned on by you that he can’t wait another second to touch you.
  3. Foreign accents. It doesn’t matter what he’s saying, as long as it sounds hot. Your man could learn how to say the alphabet in French and you’d be happy to listen to him list off all the letters. There’s just something attractive about being bilingual.
  4. Matching underwear. Our men aren’t the only ones who can put us in the mood. Sometimes, we can do the job ourselves. All we have to do is slip into a pair of matching underwear and a little black dress, and our confidence will skyrocket. When that happens, being turned on will soon follow.
  5. Neck kisses. A man shouldn’t go straight for the lips. If he really wants to turn you on, he should direct his mouth toward your neck. For some reason, the area is super sensitive. If he hits the right nerve endings, your whole body will shiver.
  6. The right cologne. Men are visual creatures, but us ladies get turned on by all five senses. That’s why a man with a delicious smelling cologne will drive us nuts. He won’t even need to do anything except hug you, because as soon as you get a whiff of his scent, his job will be done.
  7. Whispering. It doesn’t really matter what your man whispers in your ear because it’s going to turn you on. There’s just something about hearing his voice get all deep and raspy that will make you want to moan. Pretty soon, you’ll be doing just that.
  8. Intelligence. It doesn’t matter if your man tosses a five-syllable word into conversation or if he tells you a random fact about the economy you never knew. Whenever he impresses you with his intelligence, you’re going to feel a little turned on. After all, smart is the new sexy.
  9. Innocent touches. The best type of touches are when you’re cuddling with your man, and he glides his hands over your body absentmindedly. It’s nice to know that he enjoys the feel of your body, even though he doesn’t think it’s going to lead to anything. Of course, he’s completely wrong.
  10. Using his mouth. Men underestimate the beauty of using his mouth, but it’s never the wrong time for a man to offer it. If he really wants to make his girlfriend happy, all he has to do is open her legs and stick his face in between them.
Holly is a science fiction and horror writer, who has recently been published by Flash Fiction Press, Infective Ink, and Popcorn Press. You can find more of her nonfiction articles on All Women Stalk, The Talko, and News Cult.