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Halle Kaye

Halle Kaye

Halle Kaye has been writing for Bolde since 2014. She writes primarily about dating, marriage, divorce, parenting, friendship and family dynamics.

As someone who is unapologetically hyper-independent, Halle writes extensively about people who are high-functioning, high-achieving and tend to rely exclusively on themselves. She writes about the origins of this psychological profile as well as the loneliness that often comes with it. She regularly shares her personal experiences navigating parenting, family and friendship with these tendencies and speaks candidly about those moments she wishes she had someone she could rely on.

Halle is also the author of the popular 2012 dating book Maybe He's Just an Ahole: Ditch Denial, Embrace Your Worth, and Find True Love! which was based on her dating experiences in college. Halle splits her time between Westport, CT and New York.

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The better you get at handling your loneliness, the easier it is for everyone to miss it—these patterns explain why it becomes invisible

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People who keep giving even when they’re running on empty likely picked up these messages early in life

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If you prefer 1:1 conversations, it’s probably because you find group dynamics a total overstimulating mess for these reasons

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When you’re single and highly independent, there are certain moments when the costs of all that freedom are hard to ignore

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If socializing after 5pm feels loud, chaotic, and not worth the effort, you likely recharge differently than most

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If you’re struggling to live fully because life feels so uncertain, these mental shifts can help you relax

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