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Halle Kaye

Halle Kaye

Halle Kaye has been writing for Bolde since 2014. She writes primarily about dating, marriage, divorce, parenting, friendship and family dynamics.

As someone who is unapologetically hyper-independent, Halle writes extensively about people who are high-functioning, high-achieving and tend to rely exclusively on themselves. She writes about the origins of this psychological profile as well as the loneliness that often comes with it. She regularly shares her personal experiences navigating parenting, family and friendship with these tendencies and speaks candidly about those moments she wishes she had someone she could rely on.

Halle is also the author of the popular 2012 dating book Maybe He's Just an Ahole: Ditch Denial, Embrace Your Worth, and Find True Love! which was based on her dating experiences in college. Halle splits her time between Westport, CT and New York.

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I don’t depend on people emotionally the way I used to—and it’s made my life so much more stable

I don’t depend on people emotionally the way I used to—and it’s made my life so much more stable

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These behaviors reveal when someone isn’t actually kind—even if they seem nice on the surface

These behaviors reveal when someone isn’t actually kind—even if they seem nice on the surface

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People who look 40 at 60 didn’t get lucky—it comes down to these long-term habits they started early

People who look 40 at 60 didn’t get lucky—it comes down to these long-term habits they started early

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The way you load a dishwasher isn’t random—these tendencies reveal how you think about control and order

The way you load a dishwasher isn’t random—these tendencies reveal how you think about control and order

Sunday, Apr 5, 2026 11:17
If you always feel like you need a backup plan for your backup plan, you’re probably operating from these early fears

If you always feel like you need a backup plan for your backup plan, you’re probably operating from these early fears

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If you’re still doing these everyday things easily after 65, you’re aging better than most

If you’re still doing these everyday things easily after 65, you’re aging better than most

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People who are low-energy all day but wide awake at night often have these underlying tendencies

People who are low-energy all day but wide awake at night often have these underlying tendencies

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You can spend your whole life being easy to be around and still end up alone—because being liked and being known are not the same thing

You can spend your whole life being easy to be around and still end up alone—because being liked and being known are not the same thing

Saturday, Apr 4, 2026 20:11
If you’re someone who pretends to be fine even when you’re suffering inside, your trust issues run deeper than you probably realize

If you’re someone who pretends to be fine even when you’re suffering inside, your trust issues run deeper than you probably realize

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I was bullied growing up and I got over it but certain comments still take me back there

I was bullied growing up and I got over it but certain comments still take me back there

Saturday, Apr 4, 2026 19:04
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