You know the girl – the one every guy can’t keep his eyes off whenever she’s in the room. There’s just something about her that attracts every type of guy, and she’s not even trying. She stands out – and it’s not necessarily because she’s wearing a tiny dress that barely covers her boobs (that’s a different kind of attention), or she just happens to be a dead ringer for Gisele. There’s something else beyond her appearance that turn guys into moths to a flame. And guess what? Anyone can be that girl. Yes, even you.
Don’t rely on your appearance.
The hot girls who stand around with resting bitch face waiting for guys to flock to them hold the mistaken belief that looks are all that matter, so their personality probably leaves something to be desired. Guys who are worthwhile are interested in a lot more than a pretty face.
Don’t be afraid to have an opinion.
The ditzy wallflower is one way to go, but don’t expect to get noticed that way. A well informed opinion is guaranteed to show how smart you are, and we all know guys love a girl with brains.
Smile and laugh a lot.
Everyone is more attractive when they appear to be happy and having a good time. Guys want to be around girls who are fun and seem open to new experiences and people. Smiling will make you seem exponentially more approachable.
Be genuinely interested in what people are saying.
You know how it can seem sometimes like people are just semi-listening to you in order to pay their dues until it’s their turn to speak? A girl who asks questions and actually pays attention to the answers is rarer than you think. And people remember that girl.
Talk to more guys.
Not only will you end up with more options at the end of the night, but guys love competition. If they see you talking to lots of different guys, they’ll start bringing their A game in order to get your attention.
Don’t give it up so easily.
Guys like the chase – it’s basic biology. Therefore, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with playing hard to get. A girl with standards is 100 times more appealing than a girl who’s desperate to avoid going home alone.
Wear something that makes you feel hot.
When you’re feeling comfortable and sexy at the same time, it shows. You don’t want to be yanking at the hem of your skirt all night, or adjusting your bra constantly. If you’re fidgety, it’s going to look like you can’t wait to get out of there, and that’s the opposite of what you want.
Be passionate about something.
If you love your job, don’t hide it. If you volunteer at an animal shelter on weekends because you love dogs, be proud. People are attracted to passion, and the things you are passionate about make you who you are, so embrace it.
A little mystery is never a bad thing.
Knowing just when to stop short of revealing too much is an art. Social media has turned a lot of people into constant over sharers, so it’s nice to meet someone doesn’t feel the need to spill her guts to everyone who shows the tiniest bit of interest.
Leave your phone in your purse.
You’re in a room full of people. There’s no need to pull out your phone and start commenting on Instagram photos. If you’re so busy updating your status and making sure you tweet at the right people, you’ll end up missing the actual party entirely. Engage with the people who are right in front of you, and you’ll stand out from the crowd of frantic texters.
Embrace your quirks.
We’re all a little weird, but that’s what makes us unique. It’s a good thing you don’t look exactly the same as the rest of the girls in the room. If you’re taller than average, don’t even think about wearing flats. Don’t straighten your naturally wild, curly hair. Often your most unique quality is your most beautiful, and hiding it will just make you blend in with everyone else.
Confidence, confidence, confidence.
It’s not so much what a girl looks like that makes her hot. It’s the energy she projects. If you’re sure of yourself, everyone will notice, and take you more seriously.
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