How To Cope When Your Boyfriend Is A Flirt

You’ve got a man, but for some reason it seems like he flirts with everyone in his path. So annoying. Sometimes this is a warning sign to something a lot worse going on, but sometimes it’s just his personality and something you’ll have to deal with if you decide to stay. Here are some things to consider to help you figure out what to do.

Asses whether he has a flirty personality or he’s seeking female attention.

If your man is gregarious with everyone, it might just be who he is, but if he’s only nice to hot girls, we might have an issue.

Don’t automatically assume that he’s trying to cheat on you.

Your man being outgoing might have nothing to do with you, so he’s probably not wondering how you feel about it.

Be vocal about your feelings.

Being with a flirty man and not communicating about the state of your relationship, what’s happening in it, and how you’re feeling about it is just asking for trouble.

Make friends with his friends.

If your man is super close to a bunch of women, it might make more sense for you to act normal and befriend them instead of letting your jealousy get in the way of potential friendships. Isolating yourself can be a form of fit throwing and you’re no baby.

Put your foot down when you’re uncomfortable.

You can’t force a guy to change his personality type (nor should you want to), but he should want to make the girl he’s taking home tonight happy more than anything else.

Expand your own world.

Hey, you’re allowed to talk to other people too, right? Don’t flirt on purpose, but don’t stress over what he thinks about your friendships, either.

Get right with your own emotions.

A flirty boyfriend might test your confidence levels, but remaining calm is usually the best way to determine whether a freak out is in order or not.

Work on the foundation of your relationship.

When the foundation of a relationship is strong, all that surface level stuff matters a whole lot less. Are things great when you’re alone? That’s the first thing to get in order.

Realize if the foundation isn’t there.

If you’re trying to work on your foundation and it’s not going anywhere, then maybe the relationship isn’t, either, and you need to be honest with yourself and with one another about it.

Keep a sense of humor.

This guy is practically like a standup comedian with his charming and charismatic nature. It’s sort of entertaining, right?

Don’t demand that he change overnight.

Expressing your feelings is one thing, but giving that kind of an ultimatum doesn’t usually work out in your favor.

Trust him.

If he hasn’t given you any real reasons not to trust him besides being flirty, then just trust him. Distrust can cause more problems in the meantime. If something happens, you’re out of there, but relax instead of expecting a terrible outcome.

Don’t be totally naive.

Trust him, yes, but don’t overlook glaringly obvious signs that he’s disrespecting you or  – God forbid – trying to make a real move on someone else.

Enjoy it.

A flirty guy can be pretty popular and often has a lot of admirers. As long as he’s true to you, go ahead and enjoy the attention! It means you’ve got an interesting man by your side.

Get out if you hate it.

If you really can’t deal, do you both a favor and find a non-flirty guy to suit your fancy.

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