There are obviously more important things in the world than being liked, but it still feels nice to know that people genuinely like hanging out with you. So, how do you become someone everyone loves being around? While the most important thing is being your authentic self, doing these things helps too.
1. Share quirky trivia or weird jokes (but stop short of being offensive, obviously).
Being a bit of a trivia buff or the go-to for quirky jokes can make you a fun person to be around. It’s not about overwhelming people with random facts or non-stop comedy, but sprinkling in some fun tidbits or a well-timed joke can liven up any conversation.
You can pick up these nuggets of fun from books, the internet, or even daily life. It’s about adding a splash of unexpected humor or knowledge to your interactions, making them more memorable and enjoyable.
2. Be up for an adventure (and suggest one whenever possible).
Got an idea for something out of the ordinary, like a midnight picnic or a goofy themed party? Be the one to suggest it! Proposing unique activities shows your creative and adventurous side. It’s about bringing a little excitement and novelty to the group.
These suggestions don’t have to be elaborate. Even simple ideas with a twist can turn an ordinary hangout into an unforgettable experience. It’s the willingness to think outside the box that counts.
3. Leave your baggage behind (Sweetn can help with that).
It makes sense that someone who seems to be carrying the weight of the world on their shoulders isn’t going to be a barrel of laughs to hang out with. If your trauma from past relationships of any kind is dragging you down, you need to work through that so you can be more upbeat and chill. Our sister site, Sweetn, can help with that. They use researched-back advice, tips, and tricks to help you rewire your brain and approach love and life in a whole different way.
4. Master the art of genuine (and unexpected) compliments.
Dropping unexpected but genuine compliments can be a really simple but effective way to brighten someone’s day. It’s not just about complimenting someone’s looks; it could be about their sense of humor, their perspective on a topic, or their choice of accessories.
These compliments should be genuine and specific. It shows that you pay attention and appreciate the little things about people, making them feel seen and valued.
5. Bring something to share (bonus points if it’s booze).
Whether it’s a homemade snack, a cool gadget to show off, or a board game, bringing something to share can make you a welcome presence in any setting. It’s a gesture that says you’re thoughtful and considerate about adding to the group’s enjoyment.
It doesn’t have to be extravagant. Sometimes, the simplest things can be the biggest hits. It’s about the act of sharing and contributing to the fun.
6. Have an open-door policy (when possible).
If your living situation allows, having an open-door policy can make you the heart of your friend group. It means being open to friends dropping by for a chat, a coffee, or just to hang out. Of course, set boundaries so it works for you, but being seen as welcoming and hospitable is a surefire way to be loved.
This openness creates a sense of community and belonging. Your place can become a safe and fun space where everyone feels welcome and relaxed.
7. Start a fun tradition (and keep it up).
Initiate a fun tradition with your friends or peers. It could be a weekly game night, a monthly potluck, or an annual silly photo shoot. Traditions give people something to look forward to and create shared memories.
Being the initiator of a tradition shows your commitment to maintaining and enjoying the group dynamic. It’s a great way to solidify your role as someone who brings people together and makes good times happen.
8. Create personalized playlists (and make them good).
Making personalized playlists for your friends or for different occasions can be a fun and thoughtful gesture. It shows that you pay attention to what others like and put effort into making something special for them. Whether it’s for a friend’s birthday, a workout session, or just a chill evening, a well-curated playlist can set the perfect mood.
Share these playlists with your friends and explain why you picked certain songs. It could spark interesting conversations about music tastes, memories associated with songs, and even lead to discovering new music together.
9. Host unique theme nights (the crazier, the better).
Instead of the usual hangouts, try hosting themed nights. It could be anything from a retro movie night to a ‘dress as your favorite meme’ party. These themes don’t have to be elaborate; sometimes, the sillier, the better. It’s all about adding an element of fun and novelty to your gatherings.
Planning and hosting these events shows your creative and fun-loving side. It makes get-togethers more exciting and gives everyone something to look forward to and talk about long after the night is over.
10. Be the person who shares positive news (and leave the negativity at the door).
In a world where negative news often dominates, be the person who shares uplifting stories and positive news. Whether it’s a cool scientific breakthrough, a heartwarming act of kindness, or just a fun piece of trivia, sharing positive news can brighten everyone’s day.
This habit not only makes conversations more enjoyable but also helps shift the focus to the good things happening around us. It subtly influences the group’s mood in a positive way and can be a refreshing change.
11. Offer up some random acts of kindness (even if they’re small).
Little acts of kindness can leave a big impression. It might be bringing a snack for a friend who’s studying hard, sending a funny card to someone who’s feeling down, or simply offering to help without being asked. These actions show that you’re considerate and caring.
Random acts of kindness create a ripple effect. They not only make the recipient feel good but often inspire others to do the same. Being kind without expecting anything in return can make you a genuinely likable and appreciated person in your circle.
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