More Than Half Of Women & 3/4 Of Men Would Date Their Roommate—Would You?

While living with roommates into your late twenties and thirties isn’t really ideal, it is a necessity for millions of people living in expensive cities where rent on single-occupancy apartments or houses is too damn high. But what makes an ideal housemate? A new study by AreaVibes delved into the issue to find out.

  1. A lot of people live with roommates. As of 2017, a whopping 79 million adults (that’s about 32% of the world’s population, just to put that in perspective) lived with roommates. Compared to 2004, when 27% lived with roommates, that’s a pretty significant increase.
  2. Most people would rather live with someone of the opposite sex. Perhaps somewhat surprisingly, 68% of men and 63% of women admitted that they’d rather live with someone of the opposite sex. Whether it’s because they wanted to avoid drama or mess, co-ed cohabitation seems to be pretty popular.
  3. Women are pretty desirable housemates for guys for some hilarious reasons. More than half of men (57%) said that living with a woman was advantageous because the house was guaranteed to smell better, while 74% love when women who cook leave them leftovers. They also enjoy watching TV/movies and listening to music together as well as having female roommates who bring their friends over. Not hard to understand that bit! Incidentally, women’s most popular reason for wanting a guy roommate are the same—they like leftovers, a clean house, and someone to binge watch Netflix with!
  4. Guy roommates do get on women’s nerves, of course. The biggest offenses/annoyances of male roommates according to the women surveyed include not cleaning up after themselves (87% for the kitchen, 84% for the bathroom), finding their hairs in the bathroom (72-74%), and leaving the toilet seat up (66%). Men have the same complaints on similar levels about female roommates, just for the record.
  5. More men than women would get romantic with an opposite-sex roommate. For guys, 74% find their female roommates attractive. For women, that number drops to a still considerable 57%. One out of three people said they’d gotten sexual with their roommate, which kinda seems like bad news to me, but oh well.

 

Piper Ryan is a NYC-based writer and matchmaker who works to bring millennials who are sick of dating apps and the bar scene together in an organic and efficient way. To date, she's paired up more than 120 couples, many of whom have gone on to get married. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, Time Out New York, The Cut, and many more.

In addition to runnnig her own business, Piper is passionate about charity work, advocating for vulnerable women and children in her local area and across the country. She is currently working on her first book, a non-fiction collection of stories focusing on female empowerment.