Your adult children don’t need you less, they need you differently

Your adult children don’t need you less, they need you differently

There comes a day when you stop arguing with your parents not because you agree with them, but because you realize something between you will never be resolved and that’s okay

There comes a day when you stop arguing with your parents not because you agree with them, but because you realize something between you will never be resolved and that’s okay

I share custody with my ex, and I’ve stopped trying to compete with the life they have when they’re not with me, and started focusing on the version of me they get when they are—and that shift has made our time feel more grounded

I share custody with my ex, and I’ve stopped trying to compete with the life they have when they’re not with me, and started focusing on the version of me they get when they are—and that shift has made our time feel more grounded

Adults who choose to live far from their parents don’t usually make that decision lightly—it tends to come after years of experiences that made distance feel like the only way to feel like themselves

Adults who choose to live far from their parents don’t usually make that decision lightly—it tends to come after years of experiences that made distance feel like the only way to feel like themselves

When adult children don’t visit, it’s not always distance or indifference—sometimes it’s the same version of love they were shown growing up

When adult children don’t visit, it’s not always distance or indifference—sometimes it’s the same version of love they were shown growing up

Raising independent, successful kids sounds like the goal until you realize their independence is what takes them away from you

Raising independent, successful kids sounds like the goal until you realize their independence is what takes them away from you

Research suggests people who struggle to relax and let go were often raised by parents who weren’t emotionally steady

Research suggests people who struggle to relax and let go were often raised by parents who weren’t emotionally steady

Psychology says growing up with a worrying mother changes the way you move through the world

Psychology says growing up with a worrying mother changes the way you move through the world

Adults who were raised in emotionally complicated homes often notice these 7 things about their families

Adults who were raised in emotionally complicated homes often notice these 7 things about their families

Adult children often have these quiet resentments about their parents that they rarely, if ever, say out loud

Adult children often have these quiet resentments about their parents that they rarely, if ever, say out loud