Your Messy Room Says More About You Than You Think

Your room is a reflection of your inner world. But what does it say about you when it’s in disarray? Surprisingly, the state of your room can offer insights into your personality and habits. Here are 16 things your messy room says about you.

1. You have a creative mind.

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You know this better than anyone, but creativity thrives in an environment where ideas can flow freely, without strict boundaries. For creatives like you, the chaos of a messy room inspires you—it’s full of materials and tools to experiment with in the creative process.

2. You have a busy lifestyle.

Let’s be real: the demands of work, school, family, and social commitments leave little time for tidying up. In the whirlwind of your daily activities and responsibilities, cleaning and organizing sometimes fall by the wayside. Your cluttered room quite literally becomes a visual representation of the constant hustle and bustle.

3. You procrastinate.

No shame—we all do it. But procrastination can often manifest as a messy room because your hesitance to tackle cleaning tasks leads to clutter. Rather than addressing all of the cleaning and organizing, you put it off indefinitely, opting to deal with them later. This causes clutter to build up over time, creating an overwhelming environment that further perpetuates the cycle of procrastination.

4. Your emotional state might be low.

If your room is filled with clutter, that might indicate feelings of overwhelm, stress, or even sadness. We get it—when your emotions are emotion-ing, staying tidy and organized feels low priority. But your surroundings have a big impact on how you’re feeling, so if you have it in you to clean just a little, your emotional state will likely improve.

5. You’re spontaneous.

Your spontaneous lifestyle extends to your room—you’re always on the run and embracing spur-of-the-moment activities and it shows. While others see chaos, you see possibility and flexibility, and, even though things are strewn about, you know exactly where they are. Like that time you got invited to go on a last-minute hiking trip and knew your hydration pack was in the right corner of your room behind your dirty laundry.

6. You’re sentimental.

You’re sentimental and we love that about you! But, because you tend to hold onto, well, everything, your room resembles a bit of a sty. That’s okay with you, though—you like being surrounded by your memories and cherished moments. Even in the disorganization, the sentimental clutter is a reminder for you of your life and experiences and that feels cozy.

7. You’re introverted.

You look at your room as a retreat from the chaos of the outside world. Rather than prioritizing how you look on the outside, as an introvert, you focus on creating a private sanctuary where you can express yourself without judgment. The mess in your room mirrors your innermost thoughts and is a space where you can be authentic.

8. You lack boundaries.

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A messy room can often indicate a lack of boundaries whether that’s physically or mentally. There’s no clear separation between your space and other spaces. That means that sometimes, the mess in your room can even spill into shared areas, which further blurs the limits.

9. You live in your comfort zone.

You like the feeling of familiarity and predictability, which is why your room is always messy. Within the confines of your living space, you find peace in the chaos because all of your belongings bring you a sense of security. Stepping out of your comfort zone might mean tidying up and that could throw off the entire environment. Instead of viewing the mess as stress, you view it as a place where you can do you without expectations.

10. You’re a big thinker.

Being a big thinker often goes hand in hand with having a messy room. Rather than being bogged down by the details of the organization, you prioritize grand ideas and lofty goals. Your thoughts are complex and all over the place and your room certainly reflects that. In chaos, you see an opportunity to find inspiration.

11. You thrive amidst the mess.

The truth is, that some people thrive in a chaotic space. While others may find it overwhelming, for you, a messy room isn’t a sign of disorganization—no, you see it as a reflection of your dynamic thoughts. The mess allows you to fuel your ideas and spark your creativity.

12. You might be overwhelmed.

Sure, a messy space might mean you’re super creative, but it also could indicate other issues like feelings of overwhelm. Being messy is often a reflection of what’s going on inside of your head, so if you’re having trouble staying on top of the little things, paying the bills, or there’s unrest in your social circles, this can extend to your room.

13. It reflects your decision-making style.

If your room is filled with half-finished projects and abandoned hobbies (remember that one time you tried to get into soap making?). If you’re nodding your head yes, then you may have a tendency to start tasks impulsively without thinking about the long-term commitment of it all.

14. Your relationships may be chaotic.

Interestingly enough, a messy space can offer clues about your relationship patterns and dynamics. For example, if you just got in a fight with your best friend or were ghosted by the person you went on three dates with (rude), the mess might accumulate more rapidly. These periods of conflict are reflected in your clutter.

15. Your struggle with mindfulness.

When your room is scattered with trinkets, clutter, and (sometimes) trash, it could show that you’re not present in the moment. You might be more focused on external distractions (like the mess) than on your inner peace.

16. You’re blocked creatively.

While a messy room can indicate creativity, it can also indicate a lack of creativity. The clutter that’s accumulated in your room can manifest as physical creative blocks or barriers to your amazing ideas. If your projects and notes are constantly buried under piles of laundry, then you don’t have a clear space for new ideas and inspiration.

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Piper Ryan is a NYC-based writer and matchmaker who works to bring millennials who are sick of dating apps and the bar scene together in an organic and efficient way. To date, she's paired up more than 120 couples, many of whom have gone on to get married. Her work has been highlighted in The New York Times, Time Out New York, The Cut, and many more.

In addition to runnnig her own business, Piper is passionate about charity work, advocating for vulnerable women and children in her local area and across the country. She is currently working on her first book, a non-fiction collection of stories focusing on female empowerment.
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