One way to keep a relationship fresh and exciting is to always be looking for ways to surprise your partner. It’s only natural that some of those surprises will be of a sexual nature. While it’s up to both partners to be looking for ways to surprise the other person, if you ladies are looking to give your boyfriend a sexy surprise, here are some things you can try that he’s likely to enjoy.
Talking in a foreign language
If you can speak a foreign language in a sexy, seductive tone (or even just fluently), it’s bound to turn a guy on. He doesn’t even have to understand what you’re saying. The words don’t even need to be sexy, it’s just the way you say them. In fact, you can probably lie and tell him that what you’re saying is Spanish, French, or Finnish for something dirty.
Running a bath for two
Shower sex is awesome, at least most of the time. However, bathing together can be far more romantic and intimate for couples. Try surprising your boyfriend by drawing a bath, maybe adding some bubbles, and inviting him to join you. Presumably, you’ll either be naked or in a bikini, so there’s little doubt he’ll find it sexy. Then you two can spend the evening washing and massaging each other.
Sending naughty texts
Trust me when I say that you can’t go wrong sending a guy sexy text messages out of the blue. Any time of day or night, no matter where he is, he’ll be pleasantly surprised. It doesn’t even have to be a revealing photo, although there’s obviously nothing wrong with that. Text him something naughty to let him know you’re thinking about him or that you’ll be ready to get down the next time you see him. Anything that can be construed as being a little naughty will probably do the trick and build up some anticipation for the next time you’re together.
Starting a food fight
Contrary to popular belief, you don’t have to be in middle school to have a food fight. Obviously, the cleanup will be a little less fun, but try a two-person food fight with your partner. Most guys will never make the first move when it comes to a food fight, but if you do it, he’ll definitely go along. It’s just pure, unadulterated fun. In the end, you’ll both be covered in food for the other person to lick off, which will be super sexy. The best part is your boyfriend will never see it coming until you get things started by flinging mashed potatoes at him.
Going skinny dipping
Admittedly, this isn’t exactly thinking outside the box, but a lot of guys will be a little too shy to ask their girlfriend to go skinny dipping. It will definitely be a sexy surprise for him if you bring up the idea. The other option is not even bringing it up and just going ahead and get things started. If you do it, he’s sure to follow (birthday) suit.
Having misdirection sex
Guys are always in the mood for sex, right? It’s not entirely true but almost. Anyway, one sexy surprise would be to say something to indicate that sex is off the table for the night. When his hopes are down, you turn the tables and surprise him by being the one to initiate intimacy. He’ll probably be quick to forgive you for tricking him.
Waking him up
Come on, who doesn’t love the idea of being woken up by their partner cuddling up next to them and kissing them? If you really want to give your boyfriend a sexy surprise, gently wake him up and surprise him with morning sex. Let’s be honest, most relationships have are lacking when it comes to morning sex, but they shouldn’t be.
Busting out some special outfits
Playing dress up for your boyfriend definitely qualifies as a sexy surprise. The trick is to dress up like something he likes. If he’s into Star Wars, dress up as Princess Leia. If he’s into country music, wear a short skirt and cowboy boots. If nothing else, just wear the jersey of his favorite sports team (and presumably nothing else). Whatever you wear, putting on a special outfit is just a fun way to spice things up.
Finding a new location
Most long-term couples have most of their sex in bed, but try surprising your boyfriend by having sex in a new place. It could be the couch, the kitchen, or even the dark corner of your basement if you’re feeling brave. If you really want to blow his mind, lure him to a fancy hotel to give both of you a special night.
Giving him a private dance
When in doubt, you can always give your boyfriend a little striptease as a sexy surprise. You may be a little intimidated at first, but by no means do you have to be a professional dancer to do this. He’s the only one that’s going to see it, so it’s not like you have to put on a professional show. Remember that if he wouldn’t be with you if he wasn’t attracted to you, so even if your dance moves aren’t the best, he’s bound to enjoy it. Also, remind him that there’s no touching unless you say it’s okay.
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