10 Signs You’re On His Mind, According To A Guy

Chances are, when you’re seeing someone, you wonder whether or not he’s thinking about you when you’re not around. While he probably isn’t going to come right out and say that you’re on his mind, guys tend to give themselves away with their actions. In other words, his behavior will tell you all you need to know. If you’re not sure what to look out for, here are 10 signs a guy might show to let you know that you’re on his mind pretty regularly.

1. He sends you random, fun texts.

If a guy texts you without you having to text him first, that’s usually a good sign. If his texts seem random and just for fun without anything serious, that’s also a good indicator that you’re on his mind. This can mean that you just popped into his head for no reason and he wanted to share something with you. It means he thought of you without trying and wants to do something to make you smile.

2. He gives you gifts “just because.”

Anytime that a person gives you a gift on a non-gift-giving occasion, it usually means that person cares about you. If a guy does it, that usually means he thinks about you and wants to give you something or saw something and immediately thought you’d like it. Keep in mind, these don’t have to be big gifts. Perhaps he just doesn’t want to come home empty-handed and wants to give you something to make you happy.

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4. He gives you the right gifts.

It’s not just the act of gift-giving that matters but sometimes receiving the right gift can tell you that a guy is a keeper. If a guy gives you something that is “so you” or something that you love, it’s a safe bet that didn’t happen by accident. It happens because the guy thinks about you and spends time considering what you might like as a present.

5. He follows up on things you tell him.

If you tell a guy about something important happening, he’ll always follow up by asking you how it went. Frankly, it doesn’t even need to be something that important. Whenever a guy follows up about something you told him, it means that he’s actually listening to you and that he was thinking about you. I mean, if you’re not on his mind, he won’t think to talk to you about something in your life that might be important.

6. He shares important news.

Along those same lines, a guy who thinks about you will be more willing to share important news in his life. If something major happens, he’ll want you to know about it. That means even if he’s busy or experiencing a big moment, you’re on his mind. Either that or as soon as something happens, you’re the first person he wants to tell.

7. He’s always happy to see you.

I know this sounds a little obvious, but when a guy is always excited to see you, it usually means he was anticipating seeing you. He was looking forward to it and is happy when it finally happens.

8. He always asks questions.

Again, this is a little obvious, but a guy who likes to ask you questions about your life is probably thinking about you a lot. He thinks about you when you’re not around and is eager to learn more about you. It might even seem like he came prepared with a list of questions for you. That’s probably not the case most of the time. Instead, it just means you’ve been running through his mind and he’s excited to talk to you.

9. He checks your social media.

Typically, you don’t want to put too much stock in social media when it comes to your relationship. But when a guy thinks about you a lot, he’ll have little excuse not to visit your social media pages. Even if he’s coy about it, there will be some likes and comments, which will let you know that he probably thinks about you a lot.

10. He texts back when you know he’s busy.

Again, don’t put a lot of stock into a guy’s texting habits. But the more a guy texts you back right away, the more he likes you and the more he’s been thinking about you. Not to overthink it too much, but if a guy texts back right away, he might have been thinking about you and excited that you texted him. That’s why if you know he’s busy doing something but still texts back right away, it’s a safe bet that you’re on his mind.

11. Stuff reminds him of you.

No matter what it is, if a guy says that something reminds him of you, it’s a good thing. It’s also a sign that he thinks about you a lot. Odds are, if something reminds him of you, it’s only because you’ve been on his mind. That’s why he’s able to make associations between you and the things he sees out in the world. That’s pretty sweet, isn’t it?

Bryan Zarpentine graduated from Syracuse University and lives in upstate New York, where he writes largely about the world of sports. His work has appeared on Franchise Sports and WSN, among others. You can find him on Twitter @BZarp.