10 Things That Happen When You Find The One

Dating can be downright brutal, but it’ll all be worth it when you finally meet the right guy. In fact, your whole life will change when it happens.

You stop playing games.

You no longer need drama to keep life interesting. You don’t have to test his love. You stop self-sabotaging, because finally you have someone worth holding onto. You don’t need to see what might push him away, because he’s there to stay.

Life in general seems way less overwhelming.

Finding “The One” feels like a weight lifted off your shoulders — not just because you’re finally be done with the search, but because you finally have someone to come home to at the end of every day. Together, you’ll conquer the future, and that’s an exciting prospect.

You feel truly, unconditionally supported.

Your best friend may have always had your back, but finding Mr. Right is a whole different kind of support. It’s not just about sharing the bills, it’s about sharing your dreams. Not only do you support each other, you fight for each other, because your dreams are his dreams too.

You have a lot less stress.

Single women can spend a lot of time worrying that they’ll never find the right guy. You might have no control over that stress, but there’s no denying it’s a waste of time. When you finally find him, all of that just melts away.

Staying in has never been more appealing.

When you’re a single girl, a night at the bar means scoping out the hotties and figuring out which one might be worth taking home. When you’ve already found him, nothing sounds better than a night in, watching Netflix, eating pizza, and having some amazing sex.

You realize all the faults of your past relationships.

Even if you’ve already taken the time to understand what went wrong, move on, and finally let go, there will always be some aspects of the relationships that you overlooked. That is until you meet the one, and your relationship with the love of your life will finally show you what all those other flings were missing.

Your life plans are no longer just about you.

Before you met your special someone, you were essentially walking through life alone. After you meet the love of your life, you’re planning a lifetime with a partner. It’s no longer just about what you want — it’s about what he wants too, and what you really want now is lifelong happiness together.

You start feeling lucky.

No matter how much bad luck you had in love (or life in general) before, you’ll feel as if your luck is finally changing. There are literally billions of fish in the dating pond and you found the only one you needed. You both won the ultimate lottery and you get to spend the rest of your life collecting your winnings.

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