You want him, but things never seem to go in the right direction. In fact, you always feel like you’re just as far off from a relationship as the day you met him. If he’s displaying any of these signs, it’s time to accept the tough fact that he’s never going to be into you:
He doesn’t text back in a timely matter.
Yes, we all have lives and no one has the time to sit there and text you back every five seconds. That doesn’t mean this guy doesn’t have any time to text you back until days later. If he leaves you waiting by the phone, then he obviously doesn’t respect you or your time. So take the clue and look for someone who will actually give a crap.
You’re always making the first move.
Why? Because you’re the only one interested in something happening. He’s not just “too scared” to make the first move — he doesn’t want there to be a move at all. He denies your advances so smoothly that you don’t even realize you’ve been rejected, but it’s about time you take the hint.
He can’t seem to make time for you.
A man is never “too busy” to see you… at least, not if he really wants to see you. If he’s interested in you, he’ll make the time to be with you. You deserve someone who can’t seem to stay away, not a man who thinks just about anything is better than being with you. He might have a busy life, but that doesn’t mean you should spend all your time waiting.
Your gut knows something is off.
Even if you’re not aware of it, you have a woman’s intuition. When a guy’s not really into you, you can feel it. You might not want to admit it, but you’re not doing yourself any favors by just ignoring it. The sooner you realize that he’s not into you, the sooner you can move on to a man who will be.
He only hits you up when he’s bored, horny, or lonely.
He’ll never make actual concrete plans with you. Everything is last-minute because he only wants to see you if he needs something or has nothing better to do. You don’t deserve to be a simple patch to whatever insignificant tear might be in his life. If he really likes you then he’ll want to be with you no matter what he’s feeling.
You’re not confident he has feelings for you.
When a man really likes you, you’ll know. If you can’t tell or you’re just not sure, then you’re getting mixed signals for a reason. If he were actually interested, the message would be loud and clear. If he hasn’t acted on his “feelings” by now, it’s because he doesn’t have any — at least, not for you.
He doesn’t hit you up after a date.
This should be obvious, but for some reason that isn’t always the case. You went on a first date, and you thought it was amazing, but then he doesn’t call. So you text him, but then you don’t get a single reply. Maybe he’s just busy? Or maybe you should open your eyes. The date only went great for one of you, and it wasn’t him.
He doesn’t take an interest in getting to know you.
He doesn’t really ask about your life because frankly, he doesn’t really care. When you tell him things, he’s not really listening, and he’s never going to remember a word you say. He doesn’t really tell you about his life either. He’s not letting you in because he doesn’t want you in his life.
He tells you he’s not interested in a relationship.
This is one of those things a lot of men say so you don’t get your hopes up. You just have to listen. You can try to ignore him or tell him he’s wrong, but he knows himself better than you do. If he says anything about not being interested or ready or good at relationships, then take the hint and run.
He has dismissive body language.
Actions really can speak louder than words. People who aren’t interested keep their distance. He not only positions his body to face away from you, he also avoids eye contact like it will be the death of him. He doesn’t touch your arm or hug you when he sees you. In fact, he avoids physical contact altogether. One thing’s for sure: if his words don’t outright tell you he’s not interested, his body will.
He makes you feel bad about yourself.
You’re so into him that it’s making you feel desperate, especially because you seem to be the one taking all the initiative. He doesn’t make you feel special, and you probably feel like crap because he’s treating you the same way he does everyone else. To him, you’re not special — you’re just another girl he’s not interested in. It’s time to move on and find someone who treats you like the catch you are.
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