8 Reasons To Sext Your Boyfriend Tonight

Have you ever suddenly become sexually aroused when your partner isn’t there? Of course you have, we all have. Just because you’re a woman doesn’t mean you don’t have sexual desires and needs. You could always wait until you reunite with your partner, but why not start the fun a little early? Still hesitating? Put your nerves at ease with these 8 reasons you should sext your partner:

1. It keeps the love alive. Having a relationship built on mutual love, respect, and trust is what it’s all about, but your sex life can be just as important. When you stop having sex, you can stop feeling wanted by your partner, and in return you may stop wanting them. So keep the passion alive with some sexual healing.
2. You’ll learn something new. Whether you’ve been with multiple partners or only with each other, you both know something the other doesn’t. Maybe you heard it through the grapevine, saw it in a movie, or read it in a magazine. Wherever you found the idea, you should share it with your partner. New tricks, styles, and positions keep sex interesting, and keep your boyfriend coming back for more.
3. You can express your fantasies. It can be harder for some people to express or explain their sexual fantasies to their partner. Sexting gives you the perfect space to not only open up, but also intimately describe your sexual desires. When it comes to sexting, the excitement is in the details.
4. It spices up your sex life. Not only will you be expressing and hopefully experiencing your fantasies while introducing new methods to the freak beneath your sheets, you’re finding a new way to arouse your partner. Sexting gets everything out in the open so you can feel closer than ever, physically. and emotionally.
5. It can improve your communication. I’ve always said that if you can’t speak openly about sex with your partner, then you probably shouldn’t be having it. You’re both adults here and you should be able to talk about the serious stuff as well as the fun. Sometimes it’s easier to start the conversation through text, and continue it later in person. 
6. It gives you another chance to initiate. Initiating sex makes your partner feel wanted. Just like you desire to be wanted sexually, your man does, too. If you are apart and you’re in the mood, stroke his ego by sending the first sext. It will make him even more excited to come home to you. 
7. It builds trust. If you can’t trust your partner to keep your sexts private, then you can’t trust them in general. If you don’t have solid trust in your relationship then why are you together? If this is the only thing holding you back from hitting send on your naughty message, then you really need to rethink your relationship.
8. It gives you confidence. Sexting helps you to feel confident about what you’re doing in bed. You’ll think about what your partner truly wants. When you know you’re pleasing them, you’ll feel confident. Your sex will only be better, because don’t worry, they’ll want to please you just as much.