Why Dating Is So Hard According To Your Star Sign

Dating can really suck, especially when it feels like you keep going around in circles but never getting anywhere. Did you ever stop to think that maybe your astrological sign could give you some insight. Here’s why might be so hard for you according to when you were born

  1. Aquarius (January 20 – February 18) You’re a kickass woman who likes her freedom and isn’t afraid to show it. Because of this, and because you sometimes seem aloof in your fierce independence, men can be a little freaked out by you and chances are, they have good reason to be. Settling down is tricky for the Aquarius woman. You have high standards and few men make the cut.
  2. Pisces (February 19 – March 20) The Pisces woman likes to take it slow. The modern dating world with all its one-night stands and constant pressure to be dating several people at once is overwhelming for you. You’re sensitive, compassionate, kind, and loyal, and you need a guy who won’t take advantage of you and love you for who you are.
  3. Aries (March 21 – April 19) You’re fearless, passionate, and you like to be in charge. Your natural charisma draws men to you like a magnet. The Aries woman is pretty much irresistible, but you get bored easily and become impatient when things don’t go exactly as you want them to. You’re in such a hurry sometimes that you don’t even give people the chance to get to know the real you.
  4. Taurus (April 20 – May 20) You’re patient and calm most of the time, but when it comes to love, you can sometimes feel insecure and needy. The Taurus woman is capable of loving deeply and guards her heart fiercely. Sometimes this can lead to an unhealthy obsession with your partner or with falling in love and you find yourself disappointed with reality.
  5. Gemini (May 21 – June 20) You’re a beautiful paradox, at once gentle and nurturing and in your own world, separate from everyone around you. This sometimes makes you indecisive. No matter how much you love someone, you can’t help but be on the lookout for someone better, and this makes it very difficult for you to commit to anyone or let someone in.
  6. Cancer (June 21 – July 22) The Cancer woman wants to be pursued. Once caught, you’re passionate and loyal, but when you are still considering a relationship with someone, your vulnerability can often be disguised by pessimism. You expect the worst so you won’t get hurt, but this often makes people think you’re not interested. It’s okay to show a little vulnerability sometimes.
  7. Leo (July 23 – August 22) You looove attention. You’re passionate, creative, funny, and full of life, and so easy to fall in love with. You like to let the men do the work and fight over you, which they will gladly do, but if you really want to find the right person, you might want to try approaching someone who isn’t as outgoing and lively as the men who tend to win your heart. You’re worth the very best, and sometimes the best ones take a little work to find.
  8. Virgo (August 23 – September 22) Let’s face it—you overthink everything. In fact, you think your way out of most relationships before they even begin. You’re sensitive, passionate, and a romantic at heart, which makes dating a lot harder for you. You just need to talk yourself up a little more, remind yourself why you’re fabulous, and try not to overanalyze all those texts he sends you. You’re gorgeous just the way you are, and nothing you tell yourself will change that.
  9. Libra (September 23 – October 22) You love a good conversation and you need excitement. The Libra woman loves to be impressed and can be indecisive when it comes to partners. You’re charming and men just seem to fall for you easily, but it takes someone truly special to satisfy your needs.
  10. Scorpio (October 23 – November 21) You’re a beautiful, wild creature who is simultaneously the most magnetic person in the room… and the most difficult to attain. Guys fall head over heels for you just from catching your eye, but you’ll always be holding back so no one will see your sensitive side, and this can be a little lonely. It’s okay to let people sometimes.
  11. Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21) You’re the kind of woman men dream of. You are generous, funny, adventurous, and you speak your mind. You’re basically the whole package, but sometimes your tendency to live life to the fullest can jeopardize your relationships. You hate commitment and settling down is not on your list of priorities, which can make it hard for you to have fulfilling relationships.
  12. Capricorn (December 22 – January 19) Capricorn women are strong, reliable, ambitious, and tough to please. You have high standards, and why shouldn’t you? Only the best men are worthy of you, but sometimes your strength can be intimidating. It’s okay to let your guard down sometimes. That’s when you’ll meet the guys who are worthy because they’ll be attracted to both sides of you, not just your tough exterior.
Rose Nolan is a writer and editor from Austin, TX who focuses on all things female and fabulous. She has a Bachelor of Arts in Theater from the University of Surrey and a Master's Degree in Law from the University of Law. She’s been writing professional since 2015 and, in addition to her work for Bolde, she’s also written for Ranker and Mashed. She's published articles on topics ranging from travel, higher education, women's lifestyle, law, food, celebrities, and more.