Being alone isn’t the same thing as being lonely. Instead of making you feel miserable, it has the power to make you even more independent and fierce! If you relate to any of these 15 signs, being alone is bringing out the best in you and making you a stronger, happier person.
1. You feel happy when you’re alone.
You’re alone, sure, but you’re not crying in a corner or feeling like you need to have people around to entertain you 24/7. You enjoy your own company and have plenty of things to fill your time when you’re solo. Your mood is always in a healthy place when you have your place to yourself.
2. Your alone time helps you recharge your batteries.
Alone time is your time to refuel your energy and spirit. Maybe you spend time meditating, sleeping, or journaling. Whatever the case, it’s when you can regroup with your inner voice and escape the world for a bit. When you head back out into the world, you feel totally rejuvenated and ready to take on anything.
3. You’re completely self-reliant.
The great thing about having time alone is that it’s helping you sharpen your self-reliance. When something goes wrong, you know how to handle it and use your resources without always having to reach out for help. That’s not to say that you don’t value your support network, but you’re very good at taking care of yourself.
4. You spend a lot of time on self-reflection.
When you spend time with your thoughts and feelings without any interruptions or other people’s drama getting in the way, you can reflect on and process them. This helps you to heal while also making you aware of any negative patterns, such as negative self-talk, that you can nip in the bud.
5. You immerse yourself in your interests.
When you don’t have to worry about other people being around, you can immerse yourself fully into your hobbies. Whether it’s playing Xbox games or reading books, you can do so freely without any guilt. You have plenty of varied interests to keep you busy and engaged, so you’re never lost for things to do.
6. You crave time to yourself even when you’re in a relationship.
You know you’re doing alone time right when you get into a relationship and you still crave time and space to be on your own! Having your own space is something you crave because it’s part of your healthy way of life. It energizes you and makes you a better partner.
7. You’re extremely independent.
Being alone is a great way to nurture your independence. You figure out who you are and what you want out of life, both of which help set you on the right path to get there. Instead of wanting other people’s approval, you know that your opinions and choices matter yourself.
8. You’re filled with creativity.
When you have some time to think and do whatever you want, this encourages greater creativity. So, maybe you’re painting, writing, or building plans for an empire. Whatever the case, those stretches of time when you’re alone are helping you live the life you want. You’re tapped into all the things that make you unique and special, and that’s amazing.
9. You don’t run away from uncomfortable feelings.
Instead of trying to distract yourself from uncomfortable feelings, you’re used to digging into them and healing from them. Being along with them and your thoughts in the silence of your apartment doesn’t freak you out. This has made you a stronger, more well-adjusted person.
10. You have a deep sense of who you are.
Alone time shows you who you are when the world’s not around. It helps you to get comfortable with yourself and love who you are, which in turn prevents you from needing love from other people to validate yourself.
11. You’re a great life planner.
When you have time alone, you can spend lots of time planning for your future. The great thing about this is that you get to decide all of it, down to the finest details, without other people getting in the way of what you truly want. You thrive on the excitement of the potential you have to live the most incredible life.
12. You’re picky about your social connections.
Having and loving your time alone makes you pickier about who you allow into your life. You’ll only choose friends and partners who bring out the best in you. This is because you know how great it is to fly solo, so you don’t need people to make you happy.
13. You can do things alone without any anxiety.
By becoming comfortable with yourself, you can do things alone in public without fear or anxiety stopping you. These include booking a table for one at a restaurant or going to the movies alone. You might even go on solo vacations without needing anyone to accompany you.
14. Â You have something great to look forward to after bad dates.
When you love the feeling of being alone, the thought of going home to your sanctuary is what motivates you when you’re out in the world. So, you won’t stress about having a horrible first date or worrying about what to do after. Instead, you’ll look forward to going home and spending time on your own.
15. You don’t let a fear of missing out rule your life.
Instead of always trying to rush to the latest party or social gathering, you can happily spend time alone without feeling like you’re missing out on something important. You have a rich inner life, which is what sustains you and makes you feel fulfilled.
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