If You Want True Inner Peace, Start Doing These 13 Things

If You Want True Inner Peace, Start Doing These 13 Things

Achieving inner peace is a lifelong journey rather than something you can reach in a few months or even a few years. If you have a lot of internal noise and emotional upsets, you’ll find it hard to truly find a bit of equilibrium that makes you feel happy, healthy, and calm. I can’t get you there all the way, but I can tell you that doing these things will help you along the way.

1. Find your happy place.

Having a special spot where you can just be yourself and relax is key. It could be anywhere – a cozy corner in your room, a bench in the park, or even a spot at your local cafe. When you’re there, let the world’s noise fade away and soak in the tranquility. It’s your personal escape pod from the chaos of everyday life. Make it a regular thing to spend time there, and you’ll notice how it positively affects your peace of mind.

2. Declutter your space (and your mind).

Let’s face it, a cluttered space can make your mind feel just as messy. Take some time to tidy up your living area. It’s not about creating a showroom, but rather a space that feels good to be in. When things are in order, you’ll find your thoughts are too. It’s amazing how a simple act like organizing your desk can bring a sense of calm.

3. Get rid of toxic relationships (Sweetn can help with that).

If you find yourself holding on to people and situations in your life that aren’t serving you, let our sister site, Sweetn, help you out. They have some research-backed tips, tricks, and tools to help you overcome your limiting beliefs and toxic patterns so that you can demand (and get) the kind of love you deserve in your life. Check them out here.

4. Journal your thoughts and feelings.

Ever tried writing down your thoughts? It’s pretty awesome. Grab a journal and just start scribbling – it doesn’t have to be neat or make perfect sense. It’s all about letting those thoughts out of your head and onto paper. You can even try audio journaling if you want. This can be a daily thing or whenever you feel like it. You’ll be surprised how much lighter you feel after a good journal session.

5. Learn the art of saying no.

Saying ‘yes’ to everything can be exhausting. It’s cool to say ‘no’ when you need to. It’s about setting boundaries and respecting your own limits. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for taking care of yourself. Once you master this, you’ll find a lot more peace in your daily life.

6. Have a tech timeout.

Give yourself a break from the digital world. Set aside some time each day to disconnect from your phone, computer, and other gadgets. Use this time to do something you love, like reading a book, taking a walk, or just staring out the window. This tech timeout is like a mini-vacation for your brain.

7. Practice mindful mornings.

Start your day with a little mindfulness. It could be a quick meditation, some gentle stretches, or just sitting quietly with your coffee. The idea is to begin the day on a calm and positive note. This sets the tone for the rest of your day and keeps you grounded.

8. Take some time in nature.

Spending time in nature is like hitting the refresh button for your soul and helps you live in the present. Try to get outside as often as you can, even if it’s just a walk in the park or sitting by a river. Feel the sun on your face, listen to the birds, watch the leaves rustle. Nature has a way of putting things in perspective and calming the mind. It doesn’t need to be a grand adventure; even a few quiet moments under the sky can do wonders for your inner peace.

9. Create a playlist for your moods.

Music has this magical way of mirroring our emotions. Make a few playlists for different moods – one for when you’re pumped, one for when you need calming, and maybe one for when you’re feeling nostalgic. When you listen to music that aligns with how you feel, it’s like giving your emotions a voice. This can be a really cool way to understand and manage your feelings better, and it’s fun to see what songs you end up choosing for each mood.

10. Try out random arts & crafts.

Get artsy, but in a totally low-pressure way. Grab some crayons, markers, or even just a pen, and doodle away. The idea isn’t to create a masterpiece, but just to express yourself freely. You could also try other simple art forms like origami or DIY crafts. Engaging in a creative activity can be super relaxing and a great outlet for expressing your inner world.

11. Have a weekly “fancy” meal.

Once a week, treat yourself to a “fancy” meal. This doesn’t mean you need to break the bank at a high-end restaurant. Instead, make it an event at home – set the table nicely, maybe light a candle, and cook something a bit special, or get takeout from your favorite place. This ritual can be a delightful way to break the routine and make an ordinary day feel special. It’s about savoring the moment and the meal.

12. Adopt a plant buddy.

Bring a little bit of nature into your home with a plant. Taking care of a plant can be surprisingly soothing. It’s not just about watering it; it’s about watching it grow, maybe talking to it a bit (hey, no judgment!), and enjoying a bit of greenery in your space. Plus, it’s a great way to learn a little responsibility without too much pressure. Every new leaf can feel like a small victory!

13. Go on mini adventure walks.

Spice up your routine with mini adventure walks. The rule is simple: take a different route every time. It could be in your neighborhood or a nearby area. The point is to see new things and break the monotony of your usual paths. You’ll be surprised at what you can discover just by turning down a different street. It’s a small adventure that’s totally doable any day.

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Originally from Australia, Emma Mills graduated from the University of Queensland with a dual degree in Philosophy and Applied Linguistics before moving to Los Angeles to become a professional matchmaker (a bit of a shift, obviously). Since 2015, she has helped more than 150 people find lasting love and remains passionate about bringing amazing singletons together.

Emma is also the author of the upcoming Hachette publication, "Off the Beaten Track: Finding Lasting Love in the Least Likely of Places," due out in January 2025.
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