I like to keep the hope alive that there are still good guys out there, and I know that there are, but they seem to be so few and far between now that I’m better off searching for a unicorn. Losers have filled up most of my dating history and my optimism is wearing thin. If there really is a right guy out there for me who’ll treat me with the respect and kindness I deserve, he’d better show up soon because I’m so done with dating losers.
- They’re sucking the life out of me. I used to get giddy and excited about a first date, plan my outfit a week in advance and get ready while dancing around my apartment like a schoolgirl. Now it’s evolved to a point where I feel more and more jaded with each new moron I encounter. And just when I finally rehab myself from the last disaster, another one slaps me right in the face. Ugh.
- I can’t look at a guy without wondering what kind of losers he is. It’s hard to offer a clean canvas when you’re so used to guys who are complete jerks. I try to go into everything with a positive attitude, but as soon as I see even a glimpse of the loser flag being raised from its mast, I panic and bail. I just legit don’t have to time to put up with this anymore. Be all the way in my life, or get the hell out.
- Players are beneath me. I’m sick of guys who ghost you for days or completely without warning. I’m sick of being a competitor in a player’s world. I’m sick of being expected to undress before I even know the guy’s birthday. I’m completely over the player mentality and I won’t entertain anyone who lacks the human decency to respect me as a person. Beat it.
- They’re disguising themselves as nice guys and it’s annoying AF. The worst type of loser I’ve encountered is the one who swears he’s a nice guy and plays all his cards perfectly in the beginning, only to flip the switch on me once I get comfortable. I’ve learned that if he feels the need to tell me he’s a nice guy, he most certainly isn’t.
- I deserve someone who has the same heart as mine. I want a guy who mirrors what I have to offer on the inside. It’s annoying that I put my best foot forward, only to be met with an insatiable douchebag who’s only out to satisfy himself. I’m sick of putting my energy into guys who completely don’t deserve it, so until someone steps up to the plate and shows me he’s not like the rest, I’m done with the chaos.
- I’ve put in the work on myself to earn the real deal. I worked hard to be the woman I am,, and even though I’ve experienced a few more losers than what I think is necessary, I’m smarter and stronger for having experienced them. I’m ready for the guy who stands out above the rest — the guy who’s respectful and offers me honesty and acts like a best friend and partner. I won’t be settling for less than amazing, because less than amazing usually equals loser.
- I’ve evolved past settling for BS. I’ve done so much growing over the years and even though I know I can always learn more, I’d like those lessons to come from a relationship with a guy who’s actually worth it, not these losers who keep wasting my time.
- I’m worth more. I know what I want out of life and what I bring to the table in life and in love, so I’m done with dating these bozos who have zero idea how to treat a woman or how to treat people decently. I won’t tolerate being called crazy, being ghosted, being lead on, lied to, etc. The loser hotel in my heart is closed and there are no more vacancies. I’m holding out for the real deal now and I’m done with dating losers.
