The deeper your feelings get for someone, the more you want to know everything there is to know about them. While a lot of things will come naturally, here are some questions to ask a guy when you’re falling in love with him to bring you even closer together.
- What’s your star sign? If you have chosen a winner, the guy you fall in love with will want to talk to you all day long about the zodiac signs. Even if he might not believe in them himself, he will want to hear about your passions. Plus, if your star signs are compatible, you’re already in the right place. It’s great fun.
- What’s your favorite meal? Asking guys about food: that’s the way into their hearts. Rom-Coms have told us that for decades, and they’re right. We all love to reminisce about our favorite meals or memories. It’s also an easy way to suggest future, food-related dates!
- How many siblings do you have? While some questions might delve deeper, it’s also valuable to check in with the basics. Ask about your guy’s siblings: you can always tell when someone’s a middle child. They’re often really needy – so when you’re falling in love with a guy, it’s useful to know what to expect going forward.
- Do you like your family? This is a telling question. It shows whether he respects his family, and demonstrates how he treats the important people in his life. Watch out for red flags, because it might reveal how he would talk about you to other people.
- Do you want to meet my friends? When you’re realizing that your feelings for a guy have evolved from ‘like’ to ‘love’, you should start amping up the relationship. Suggest introducing him to your friends. If he’s all on board, that’s a great sign. If not, maybe press pause and reflect on what his indifference means.
- Are you into any sports? This is a great opportunity to bond with your crush and deepen your relationship. If he’s really interested in bonding over sports, that demonstrates that he reciprocates your feelings by having a shared hobby. Plus, the sports rivalry sexual tension is unparalleled!
- Do you like me? This is a really honest, vulnerable question to ask. It’s also the obvious thing that people sometimes don’t think they’re allowed to ask. If you can’t tell if your partner likes you back, just ask.
- What do you like about me? It’s okay to want compliments. We might not say it, but we all want that validation. If you love and trust your partner, start getting comfortable complimenting them, and asking about what aspects of your personality appeal to them. It goes beyond the usual superficial features and can really boost confidence.
- Can you pick me up from the airport? This is important for two reasons. Firstly, I find it really sexy when someone drives me around. Secondly: the romantic gesture of picking you up after a trip shows that he really cares and is into you enough to deal with traffic on the highway to get out there and pick you up.
- Can I touch you? Whoever said that consent isn’t sexy, I need to have a word with them. You tell me that it doesn’t feel amazing when someone looks you in the eye and asks to make you feel good. Consent is absolutely vital and it can be hot as hell.
More questions to ask a guy when you’re falling in love
- What are you doing next week? If you’re really interested in this guy, why not move things along? Don’t wait for him, take your own agency. It’s really empowering and shows that you will set the tone for the relationship.
- What are you into? By communicating sexual preferences and talking about sex openly, you can really build a strong foundation of love. This is a really important question to ask someone you love.
- Do you want a relationship? If you feel your feelings getting stronger by the day, this is a good time to check in and prevent further heartache. Just make sure you haven’t got the wrong impression and that he wants what you want!
- What are your biggest regrets? We all want someone who is impressive, but it’s also important to know that your partner is humble. It’s a green flag if they’re capable of looking at the past in a reflective way. It shows that they’re mature and ready for love.
- What’s on your bucket list? Ask this question, and you will learn all about your partner. It shows whether your ambitions are aligned with theirs, and you can check off things on the list together!
- What did you study in college? Here, you can learn about his background, and see how similar or different you are. If you love him, learning about his interests is essential. Obviously, skip this if he didn’t go to college; you can sub in asking him about what he got up to after high school instead.
- What’s your most embarrassing story? We all need to be humbled once in a while, and able to laugh at ourselves. If you’re starting to feel like you love this guy, make sure that you see him in some less flattering situations so that you know how deep your feelings are.
- Do you want to travel? If you want to travel but he doesn’t, that might be a deal-breaker. When you’re falling in love, ask these questions soon so that you know how compatible you are. If he does want to travel, ask him the top 5 destinations on his list. Planning a trip might be in order.
- Do you want to meet my family? If the guy you love is all-in, this is a no-brainer. That’s the best situation. However, if he refuses to commit, that’s a red flag. Protect your heart if he doesn’t want to meet your people. This might be one of the most important questions to ask when you’re falling in love since the answer will determine a lot about your future.
- I love you; do you love me? If you love someone, you have to be honest with them. Don’t bother playing games. Be direct and you will get clarity on your relationship. That’s the gold standard. Pluck up the courage. Falling in love is a wonderful experience, but asking some important questions will ensure you protect yourself moving forward.
