If you’re anything like me, people’s inconsiderate behavior just grinds your gears. From oblivious space invaders to noisy phone chatterers, some people seem to have zero awareness of how their actions affect other people. Here are some of the worst offenses when it comes to bad public behavior. Hopefully you’re not guilty of any of these yourself!
1. They get up in people’s faces when they’re talking.
You know the type – they stand way too close, invading your personal bubble. It’s awkward, and honestly, we can smell your breath from here. Back up a little, friend! There’s a reason it’s called “personal space” – let’s honor that invisible boundary. Plus, no one wants to be accidentally showered with your spit when you talk excitedly.
2. They have full conversations on speakerphone in public.
We don’t need to hear the details of your doctor’s appointment or your argument with your ex. Headphones exist for a reason, people! Your private conversations don’t need to be blasted to the entire bus/coffee shop/grocery store. Keep it down, or better yet, take it outside. Maybe the park pigeons are interested in your drama, but the rest of us are not.
3. They manspread or put their stuff on spare seats on public transportation.
Spreading out on public transportation like they own the place? Nope. One person, one seat – it’s simple math. We’re all tired, we all want to sit down– it’s not that hard to put your crap on the floor between your legs and let someone else sit down. And honestly, stretching out like some kind of starfish on the subway is just a weird power move.
4. They cut in line.
Seriously? We’ve all been waiting patiently, and you think you can just waltz to the front? Get to the back of the line! Unless you’re rushing off to save the world, your time isn’t more valuable than anyone else’s. The people in the front of the line got there by, you know, waiting. Does patience not exist in your world?
5. They try to strike up conversation in the bathroom.
Some places are sacred, and the bathroom is one of them. We don’t need to make small talk in there, thanks. Let’s just agree to respect the unspoken bathroom code of silence… for everyone’s sake. The bathroom is not a social hub, no matter how urgent your gossip may seem.
6. They chew way too loudly (and usually with their mouths open).
The constant popping and smacking? It’s enough to drive anyone insane. Nobody needs a soundtrack to your chewing. It’s like nails on a chalkboard, but somehow even more irritating. Maybe invest in some mints instead?
7. They litter or leave their trash behind.
Trash belongs in the trash can, not on the ground. Don’t be lazy, clean up after yourself! The world is not your personal garbage bin. Let’s keep our streets and parks clean for everyone to enjoy. Think of all the poor squirrels rummaging through your discarded fast food wrappers. And yes, not picking up your dog’s crap counts here, too — and it’s disgusting!
8. They give spoilers.
Blurting out the ending of a movie or TV show before everyone’s seen it? Pure evil. Let people enjoy things at their own pace. Don’t ruin the fun for everyone else just because you couldn’t contain your excitement. A true fan understands the importance of suspense.
9. They “reply all” on what should have been a personal email.
Hitting “reply all” for an email that has nothing to do with most of the recipients? Instant inbox overload. Think before you click! Spare your coworkers an avalanche of unnecessary emails. Or better yet, learn how the BCC function works.
10. They interrupt people when they’re speaking.
Can’t even let someone finish a sentence before jumping in with your own thoughts? It’s disrespectful and makes conversations impossible. Practice the art of active listening – you might be surprised what you learn when you let others actually speak. Don’t hog the conversation, everyone deserves a turn to be heard.
11. They just… don’t show up.
Making plans and then disappearing without a word? It’s flaky, and it wastes people’s time. If you can’t make it, just say so. Don’t leave people hanging – a simple text takes two seconds and shows you respect their time. And honestly, it’s always better to cancel than to just not show up at all.
12. They’re always “borrowing” things and never return them.
Always borrowing things and never giving them back is basically just stealing with extra steps. If you want something, buy your own or at least ask if it’s okay to keep it long-term. Don’t be that person who’s always “forgotten” to return things. Same goes for money. If you’re that desperate that you really need to ask, make sure you’re in a position to pay the lender back.
13. They eat people’s food without asking.
Your fries are not my fries. Ask first, or better yet, just order your own. Food thievery might seem harmless, but it’s a quick way to get on someone’s bad side. Sharing is great, but only when it’s agreed upon beforehand.
14. They give unsolicited (and unwelcome) advice.
Unless someone specifically asks for your opinion, keep it to yourself. Nobody likes a know-it-all, especially when they don’t know anything. Sometimes people just need to vent, not receive a step-by-step solution to their problems. Read the room before launching into advice-giving mode.
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