Have you ever met a guy and ended up liking them so much that you became obsessed with him? Well, what if the shoe was on the other foot? After all, you ladies should be striving to make guys go crazy for you rather than the other way around. It’s not as farfetched as you think if you just play your cards right. With that said, here are 10 things you can do to help make a man become obsessed with you.
People are always going to be drawn to confidence. That’s just the way the world works. There’s something undeniably attractive about a woman who is confident and comfortable in her own skin. Even if you have to fake it until you make it, that should vibe you send out. I mean, no guy dreams about settling down with an insecure woman. Show everyone that you’re a confident person and that man will become obsessed with you because he’ll sense that there’s something special about you.
Show off your smarts.
You should never dumb yourself down for a guy. Believe it or not, most of us adore smart women who can carry a conversation and share interesting ideas with us. It keeps us wondering what you’re going to say next and makes us obsess over more than your looks. We’ll also be excited to spend more time with you, which is a byproduct of obsession.
Just be nice to other people. Sometimes it can be as simple as that. It’s not always easy to be kind and compassionate to everyone you come across in life, not just the guy you’re dating. It’s something that will make a man obsessed with you because it makes you stand out. Also, kindness is something that is undeniably appealing to most guys.
Having a life outside the relationship.
Frankly, he won’t have time to become obsessed with you if everything revolves around the relationship. You need to have things going on outside of the relationship to keep a guy interested and fuel his infatuation with you. You can’t make a guy obsessed with you if you’re always available to him. That’s why it’s important to maintain an interesting life outside of the relationship.
Obviously, you want him to know that you’re interested in him, but you don’t want to overdo it. You don’t want to act like you’re chasing after him or you’re obsessed with him. Play it cool and play just a little hard to get. When your actions are subtle with regard to how you feel about a man, it creates just enough space for him to start chasing you and becoming obsessed with you.
Don’t rush to text him back.
Admittedly, this feels a little bit like a game, but that’s okay. This is all part of not always being available to him so that he has an opportunity to become obsessed. That doesn’t mean you’re purposely not texting him back right away. Just don’t go out of your way to make sure you text him immediately. Odds are, he’s not doing the same for you anyway.
Make his friends like you.
Of course, it’s always a good thing when a guy’s friends like you. But if you can get them to really like you, this is one way to make him obsessed. If a guy’s friends like you, he’ll want you even more because he’ll realize how great you are and how jealous his friends are that he has you.
Leave something to the imagination.
Naturally, you’ll want to dress nicely to make the guy you like find you attractive, but you don’t want to be over the top. You want a guy’s attention but you need to leave him wanting more. If you force him to use his imagination, he’ll keep thinking about you and slowly become more infatuated with you.
Spontaneity is just a great quality for a woman to have. It usually means that she’s fun and exciting to be around. It keeps a guy interested in you because he’s always wondering what’s going to happen next. This will make any guy want to stick around without worrying that he’s settling down or falling into a rut. If you show a guy your spontaneous side, he’ll become obsessed with you because he’ll always be thinking about what the two of you are going to do next.
Make him wait for sex.
Okay, I don’t mean that you should make him wait forever. However, it can be a good idea to make him wait a little while to see how he really feels about you. Also, not sleeping with a guy right away can be a useful tactic to make him obsessed with you. Give him some time to anticipate being with you and fantasize about what it’ll be like. Just a little waiting without being too much of a tease will help fuel a guy’s obsession for you.