People who are self-aware know how to view their own actions through a relatively objective lens. They recognize that they’re not perfect and that sometimes they’re going to mess up or need to work on some of their shortcomings. This also helps them in their relationships with other people, as they’re able to ensure they’re treating their partners with respect and consideration while also protecting and standing up for themselves.
1. They Don’t Ignore Red Flags.
Self-aware people are attuned to their instincts and don’t dismiss red flags when they appear. They’re aware that overlooking these early warning signs often results in more significant issues later on. They’d prefer to deal with problems head-on and squash them (or walk away) before they waste anyone’s time or energy.
2. They Maintain Their Individuality.
While understanding that compromise is part of any relationship, self-aware people make sure not to lose their individuality. They value the importance of keeping their passions, hobbies, and friendships outside the relationship. They know that melding into a single unit isn’t just obnoxious, it’s unhealthy.
3. They Prioritize Communication.
Clear and honest communication is a key component of any healthy relationship. Self-aware people never underestimate this aspect and consistently express their feelings and expectations openly. Once the ability to talk to each other stops, the relationship is pretty much over. They do whatever they can to avoid that happening.
4. They’re Not Afraid to Apologize.
Self-aware people realize that everyone makes mistakes and aren’t hesitant to apologize when they’re wrong. They recognize that offering an apology is an act of strength, not a sign of weakness. They’re not perfect and can always hold their hands up and admit when they’ve messed up. As a result, they expect the same from their partners.
5. They Continually Nurture the Relationship.
Regardless of how long they’ve been with their partner, self-aware people never take the relationship for granted. They understand that a relationship requires consistent nurturing to maintain the connection. Regular date nights, thoughtful gestures, and showing appreciation and affection are big priorities for them.
6. They Set Clear Boundaries.
Self-aware people appreciate the importance of setting boundaries. They communicate their limits clearly to ensure mutual respect and understanding in their relationships. They know what they won’t accept and they make that clear to their partner from the outset. They also respect their partner’s boundaries and would never cross them.
7. They Don’t Neglect Their Partner’s Needs.
Being self-aware also means being aware of other people’s needs. These people strive to understand and meet their partner’s emotional needs, which fosters a deeper connection in their relationship as a result. They know that human beings are complex and relationship needs are nuanced, so they always make sure to dive a bit deeper to make sure their partner is in a good place.
8. They Don’t Hold Grudges.
Self-aware people understand that holding onto anger and resentment is self-damaging. They practice forgiveness, knowing that it’s crucial for their emotional well-being and the health of their relationship. If they forgive their partner for doing something to hurt them, they don’t bring it up again the next time they fight. Bygones are truly bygones with them, and that’s how it should be.
9. They Don’t Jump to Conclusions.
Instead of making assumptions, self-aware people ask questions to try to get a clearer perspective. They’re aware that misunderstandings can lead to unnecessary conflicts in their relationships and they’d rather avoid that. They always give their partner the benefit of the doubt rather than assuming the worst all the time.
10. They Prioritize Self-Care.
Self-aware people recognize that self-care isn’t selfish; it’s necessary. They prioritize their own mental health and wellness largely because they understand that they need to be in a positive personal space to contribute positively to their relationships. You can’t pour from an empty cup, after all.
11. They Practice Active Listening.
Self-aware people understand the importance of really hearing their partner. They don’t just wait for their turn to speak but listen to understand and empathize with their partner’s perspective. They want their partner to feel understood and truly cared for, and listening is one of the best ways to do it.
12. They Show Appreciation Regularly.
They don’t take their partner for granted. A self-aware person consistently shows appreciation for their partner’s efforts and contributions, which strengthens the bond between them. They know how awful it feels to be taken for granted and they’ll do anything they can do avoid that happening.
13. They Respect Their Partner’s Space.
Understanding that everyone needs personal space, self-aware people respect their partner’s need for time alone or with other people. They balance togetherness and independence in the relationship. They’re not selfish with their partner’s time or jealous when they want to spend time with other people.
14. They Don’t Play the Blame Game.
Instead of resorting to blame during disagreements or fights, self-aware people focus on resolving the issue. They understand that blaming the other person doesn’t solve problems, it creates more resentment. Even if the other person is to blame, they let their partner come to that realization in their own time.
15. They Encourage Their Partner’s Growth.
A self-aware person encourages their partner’s personal and professional growth. They understand that for a relationship to be healthy, both people need to grow and not feel held back. That’s the only way they even stand a chance of lasting long-term.
16. They Show Consistent Love and Affection.
They understand the importance of expressing love and affection regularly. Regardless of the ups and downs, a self-aware person continues to show their partner that they are loved and valued.
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