My Boyfriend & I Need To Watch Porn Before Having Sex

Every couple has their methods for getting in the mood. For some it involves costumes, handcuffs, or the latest issue of Cosmo; for me and my boyfriend, it’s watching porn every time we have sex.

  1. Porn takes our sex to the next level. It’s not just exciting foreplay, it also makes us extra horny so the sex, when we get to it, is even better. We have a playlist of our favorite videos queued up that’s specially curated to be full of the hottest, raunchiest porn ever. Taking time to research the best porn has been a bonding experience as well, which is awesome.
  2. We were hooked from the first time we tried it. I think I called out to all deities in existence the whole time. It was kinky, sweaty, and all sorts of euphoric. Before that time, I thought getting a double-O was just a myth. Boy, was I proven wrong! My boyfriend and I agreed it was the best sex we ever had in our three-year relationship. We’ve had our fair share of amazing sex before, but the bar was set higher after we added porn to the mix.
  3. It’s never let us down. We had so much fun the first time around that we decided to throw on a video the next time we had sex as well. We thought maybe the first time was a fluke but as it turned out, nope, porn was still taking our intimacy to crazy new heights. Both of us were trying hard to catch our breaths afterward, which is something we hadn’t experienced in a very long time.
  4. After falling into a bit of a rut, the sex became exciting again. We’d been together for a while and although we loved having sex, it was lacking some of the passion and intensity of the earlier days. That all changed when we started watching porn in the bedroom. Sexy time became more frequent and both of us were always looking forward to it. We spiced things up by mimicking the positions on screen and sometimes even the dialogue. It sounds funny but it really worked.
  5. We tried not watching and it was… different. Sensing that we were getting a bit addicted to the porn, we decided to try having sex without watching anything and it was weird. We were so used to the build-up the videos gave us that we didn’t know what to do when it was just us. It felt uncomfortable and our performance was affected. We weren’t satisfied at all and I realized I wasn’t even turned on while doing it. We tried repeating the porn-less routine the next day and it didn’t get any better. In fact, it was kind of worse because we were both unsure how to go about it. It felt very awkward the whole time we were doing it and more so when we were done. To make matters worse, my boyfriend gave me a high five afterward thinking it would lighten the mood.
  6. We decided to bring the porn back and the fire came with it. Frustrated with how things had gone, we decided to go back to watching porn and suddenly, we were like dogs in heat. The fire was quickly rekindled after the first video. We only watched one but we kept going for the whole night that we barely slept. Needless to say, we called off sick from work the next day because we were exhausted from our little rendezvous.
  7. It opened us up to a whole new element of our relationship. I never would have known that our relationship has such a kinky side if we hadn’t brought porn into our sex life. Our relationship revolved around our daily routines before, often to the point that getting physical started to seem like a chore for us. After we started watching porn, all of that changed. We were more intimate and sweet with each other even outside the bedroom. We’ve also become more adventurous in a way and always up to trying new things because we’re so happy with how things worked out.
  8. We’re dependent on porn to get off, but so what? We know and accept that we’re addicted to porn. When we have sex, it’s either with a video or no sex at all. There isn’t any other option. People may find it weird or problematic but it’s working well for us and that’s all that matters.
20-year-old something from somewhere in the tropics who's obsessed with skincare products, printed socks and soft cookies.
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