We’ve all spent sleepless nights staring at a screen waiting for a guy to text back. We know what it’s like to debate the smallest things he said or did, wondering what every little thing means. If you’re sick of dating guys that always leave you hanging, maybe it’s time for something new. Here’s why you should only date guys who chase you, rather than the other way around:
It boosts your ego.
You know the hit your self-esteem takes when he takes two days to text back? It leaves you hurting, thinking maybe there’s something wrong with you that caused it. When a dude’s chasing you, yeah, he might text a little too much, but you’ll know he thinks you’re worth his time.
You know exactly what they want.
And what they want is pretty simple: you. Chances are when a guy’s serious about dating you, he’ll tell you. Clear communication is amazing.
It cuts back on the games.
The will-he-won’t-he back and forth is fun for a while, but there comes a time when you just don’t want to play games anymore. When a guy is obviously into you, there are fewer games to be played.
It’s less exhausting.
The reason all those games get old? Yeah, it’s cause they’re exhausting. We get tired of them real fast. When you know a dude is in it to win it, there’s less pressure to play and more time to enjoy dating.
There’s a thrill in being chased.
If it’s ever happened to you, you know it’s true. There’s something about the fizzy feeling of being wanted that’s just indescribable. You’re no longer staring at the phone in sadness, you’re staring at it because his texts will fill you with excitement.
They’ll treat you better.
No games? No drama? Seems like a pipe dream, right? But when a man wants you, he shows you that. They spend their time trying to make you happy rather than keep you hanging on their every signal.
You won’t be wasting your time.
The time and energy you put into a relationship with a guy who’s actively chasing you won’t be wasted. You’ll know exactly how serious he is, and you can rest assured that it’s a good idea to give him a shot.
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