What Your Favorite Sex Position Says About What Kind Of GIrlfriend You Are

Our preferences in the sack can be very telling of who we are in relationships. What does your favorite sex position say about who you are as a girlfriend? Check it out:

  1. Missionary I’m sure you’re expecting that preferring a position like missionary means you’re a basic and boring GF, but au contraire. Girls who like missionary value intimacy more than any other aspect of their relationship, both physically and emotionally. We forget that simple is better and there’s a reason missionary is one of the most well-loved sex positions across all nations. It’s intimacy at its finest, giving both people involved an opportunity to really connect both with eye and body contact. The girl who prefers missionary needs that intimate, deep connection in her relationship and loves to cuddle and be close.
  2. Doggy style The type of GF that favors doggy style over every other sex position is one of those super bad-ass thrill seeking chicks. These ladies are really good at engaging in the moment and are always coming up with fun things to do. They see their relationship as mostly positive and moreover just wanna have good times with their BFs. They’re daring and always in search of novelty and pretty much NEVER get bored.
  3. Spooning This girl is all about commitment. She believes that a relationship isn’t a relationship unless it’s been defined and both parties have clearly and succinctly professed their love and loyalty to each other. She’s already got a Pinterest board for her future wedding and is very picky about the quality of guys she dates. If he’s not relationship material, she’s onto the next one.
  4. Girl on top The girl who likes being on top likes to have a good amount of control in her relationships. If she notices that the relationship she’s in isn’t going well, she’ll take matters into her own hands and end it. Some of this control stems from insecurity, but it’s mostly just her way of feeling safe in her relationships. If she wants her partner to do something for her or to change, she has no problem letting him know. A master communicator who doesn’t beat around the bush.
  5. Reverse Cowgirl This girl values sexual chemistry in a relationship more than anything else. She’s always been in touch and comfortable with her sexuality and expects her partner to take sex as seriously as she does and she’s not one to giggle in the bedroom. She isn’t shallow, she just really appreciates her partner’s sexuality. If she’s not getting consistently hot for her partner, she’ll move on pretty quickly.
  6. 69 This girl… is lying.
  7. Standing The girl who likes to have sex standing up has been in a lot of long-term relationships and though she’s not gung-ho on getting married, she sees her love life as one of the most important aspects of her identity. This type of girl is a real romantic type. She’s one of the few out there who actually believes in soulmates and true love and all that supposed BS.  She gets easily attached and wears her heart on her sleeve, but with all of the experience she’s had, she’s also built up a lot of resilience against getting hurt.
  8. On her stomach The girl who prefers laying flat on her stomach during sex has captured that feminine receiving energy we’ve all read about (and subtly rolled our eyes at) in wellness blogs. She has a great about of respect for herself and for her relationship. Sex is sacred to her and don’t be surprised if you see her praying on a crystal egg before gettin’ busy. Her BF worships her because she lets him and relationships just seem so easy for her! She’s living in a dream world. No fair.
  9. Legs over his shoulders So this girl is incredibly smart and well read. She’s the GF who has a strange gender-neutral alternative name for her boyfriend like “super-friend” or “person.” She doesn’t subscribe to the whole marriage thing and is probably considering an open relationship as we speak. She’s technically in a traditional relationship, but she knows that at the end of the day, she’s an individual and that her happiness is more important than pleasing a man. Amen!
  10. Crouching Cat This is a play on doggy style. You’re basically doing a cat pose from yoga while he enters you from behind. This girl is very shy and generally quiet. She hasn’t had many relationships and takes awhile to let someone really see her. She’s spent the majority of her life single, by choice but won’t turn down a relationship if it really feels right. She’s a private person, but once you’re in, you’re in (in more ways than one, ha).
Jennifer is a playwright, dancer, and theatre nerd living in the big city of Toronto, Canada. She studied Creative Writing at Concordia University and works as a lifestyle writer who focuses on Health, B2B, Tech, Psychology, Science, Food Trends and Millennial Life. She's also a coreographer, playwright, and lyricist, with choreography credits for McMaster University’s “Spring Awakening,” “Roxanne” for the Guelph Contemporary Dance Festival, and “The Beaver Den” for The LOT, among others.

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