What Your Favorite Sex Position Says About You

What Your Favorite Sex Position Says About You

You can tell a lot about someone by what kind of sex they enjoy, and nothing is more telling than their position of choice. Ever wonder what your favorite sex positions says about you? Read on to find out.

  1. Doggy Style You’re the kind of girl who loves to get down and dirty. You’re passionate and just a little bit independent, but don’t have an issue letting someone else take control of any situation. You’re also a fan of deeper than average penetration, rough sex, and might be a little kinkier than most. For you, sex often tends to be more about fantasy than it is about intimacy.
  2. Missionary You’re a traditional kind of person, but that doesn’t mean that you’re boring. You’re a passionate romantic who loves nothing more than gazing into your lover’s eyes. You’re definitely a fan of letting someone else take the lead, and as long as there’s plenty of cuddling afterwards, you’ll be happy as a clam. In terms of life choices, you tend to go for the “tried and true” options.
  3. Cowgirl If there was ever a woman who liked to take the reins and be the one in control, it’s you. You know what you’re doing, and you have no problem flaunting your awesomeness wherever you go. You’re extremely confident, and are most likely the popular girl in your group of friends. Guys might be intimidated by you, but they’ll appreciate you all the same. Go you!
  4. 69 So, there’s no denying that you definitely prefer to march to the beat of your own drummer. You believe in a very egalitarian partnership, and it can make a pretty big impact on your sex life. Any guy who doesn’t enjoy cunnilingus probably won’t be around long as a significant other.
  5. Spooning Oh, you cuddlebug, you! With a sex position like spooning, it’s pretty clear that you really love the reassuring hold of a partner. You’re very softhearted and might be called too sensitive by others who don’t understand you. You’re extremely nurturing with both love interests and good friends, and you expect to see them return that love in equal amounts.
  6. Ankles Up When it comes to actual sex, you can be pretty demanding with your partner, but that isn’t a bad thing. You crave the intimacy but also aren’t going to tolerate sex that doesn’t give you a big O. Much like fans of Missionary position, you need to be able to look into your lover’s eyes in order to fully enjoy a session. However, unlike many other Missionary-like positions, you tend to opt for rougher loving.
  7. The Spider This is one of the most visual sex positions for women, but it also is one of the least intimate. For you, being able to get a full view of you and your lover is an absolute must. To a point, this position also suggests that you are alright with putting in some extra work as long as the results you want will happen.
  8. Up Against A Wall People who prefer this sex position tend to be extremely passionate, often to the point that most others might be seriously intimidated by them. This position suggests that you have no problem bringing fantasy into reality, and that you might even lose yourself in the moments. This wild energy also tends to seep into regular day-to-day life, so don’t be surprised if people often pick up on your sexy, passionate vibes.
Ossiana Tepfenhart is a New Jersey based writer and editor with bylines in Mashed, Newsbreak, Good Men Project, YourTango, and many more. She’s also the author of a safe travel guide for LGBTQIA+ people available on Amazon.

She regularly writes on her popular Medium page and posts on TikTok and Instagram @ossianamakescontent.
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