I Love Having Sex With My Boyfriend, But I Still Like To Masturbate

My sex life with my boyfriend is amazing. We do it often and we do it well, but I still go it alone pretty regularly. Masturbating can’t be replaced with actual sex, no matter how great the sex is. I love having sex with my boyfriend, but I’m still going to touch myself.

It’s a different sensation.

Doing it alone isn’t better than with my boyfriend, just different. Touching myself and being touched by another person are two different sensations, and they can both be incredible. I don’t see any reason to give up one because I have the other.

I can rely on myself for a good orgasms.

I like that I don’t need to rely on a guy to get off. Like most things in life, I’ve got this on my own. My boyfriend satisfies me, but I’m empowered knowing that I don’t actually need him to get the job done.

It’s great stress relief.

What’s more relaxing than lying down with a cocktail, a great playlist and your favorite vibrator? While I’m doing it, all of my cares melt away and I’m more relaxed and ready to conquer the world when I’m done.

Sometimes, you need a super quicky.

Like, MEGAQUICK. When I just need to get an O out and get on with my day, masturbation is the surefire way to get it done and get it done FAST.

My imagination is sexy AF.

My mind takes me places no boyfriend can. Sure, I can let my mind drift off to fantasy during sex with my boyfriend, but the fantasy will be shattered when his moves don’t line up with the narrative in my head. It’s not his fault, he’s just not a mind reader.

It’s medicinal.

I use masturbating to alleviate period cramps, headaches and hangovers. There’s nothing romantic about sharing a medicinal orgasm with someone, so I often just handle it myself.

I’ll get off when it works for my schedule.

 Busy, grown women have schedules that don’t always match up with their beau’s. Instead of suffering through a long dry spell, I satisfy myself until we manage to find a good sex window. My vagina is on my schedule, not his.

Masturbating improves my sex life.

When I do it alone, it’s even better when we do it together. I’m more confident and in tune with my body. I’m not so frustrated that I orgasm too quickly, and I don’t feel any anxiety about finishing. When I masturbate on a regular basis, sex with my boyfriend is hotter and more satisfying. He always gets me where I want to go, and I believe my solo time has something to do with that.

No one will ever know how I like to be touched better than I do.

I know what I want at any given moment — no guy can possibly read my mind that well. I know exactly when to adjust the pace, pressure or location. Sure, it’s missing the element of surprise, but it’s exactly what I want in that moment. No matter how hot sex with my boyfriend is, I’ll never stop touching myself on a regular basis.

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