Many people claim that they’re down to earth, because who doesn’t want to be viewed as easy-going and chill? Being down to earth is something many people aspire to be, but not everyone truly is. Those who are down to earth have a few distinct characteristics that set them apart from everyone else. It’s these traits that make them so desirable to potential friends and even romantic partners.
1. They’re carefree.
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Down-to-earth people don’t stress over anything, big or small. They see things for what they are and take things with a grain of salt. They don’t get overly worked up when things don’t work out their way, or get super unhappy when other people don’t give the way they do—instead, they let things roll off of their backs and keep moving.
2. They are genuine in everything they do.
Saying you want the best for someone and actually wanting the best for someone are two totally different things. Those who are down to earth really mean it when they say they want someone to be happy or successful. They are genuine in all of their wishes and desires for themselves, and for others, too.
3. They don’t take themselves seriously.
Sure, being serious in certain situations is important, but those who are down to earth don’t take themselves too seriously. Essentially, they’re able to laugh at themselves and brush off their mistakes and flaws. They don’t fixate on what they do wrong or what they see to be wrong, they accept and love themselves for who they are and all that they are, even when they trip and fall.
4. They’re humble.
Being successful is amazing, but it’s important to not boast and brag about it too much. Those who are down to earth understand that just because you’re amazing at something doesn’t mean you need to post it all over social media and shove it in people’s faces. Being modest and humble is a true trait of someone who’s down to earth—they find their talents and success just as normal as the next person.
5. They listen to others.
Individuals who are down to earth genuinely listen to others when they speak, whether it’s a casual conversation or someone leaning on them for support and advice. Down-to-earth people value real, meaningful relationships and make an effort to remember things that others tell them.
6. They aren’t concerned with other people’s validation.
Many people need validation from others to build themselves up. They use social media to seek acceptance and likes, comments, and praise from those who follow them. Not those who are down to earth, though. They don’t need it, they feel fulfilled on their own.
7. They don’t care when people disagree with them.
Everyone has their own opinions and views, but when people disagree and opinions clash, it can really get under people’s skin. Instead of getting heated over it, people who are down to earth accept that two people can disagree and still be friends and get along just fine.
8. They aren’t concerned with name brands.
Down-to-earth people don’t need to spend hundreds and hundreds of dollars on things just because of the designer—the truth is, they’re happy getting anything, as long as it makes them feel good. They aren’t looking to impress everyone with flashy names.
9. They’re always grateful.
When receiving gifts, big or small, down-to-earth people are grateful to receive anything at all. They aren’t the type of people who will go to the store and return things immediately, instead, they cherish the thought and effort their friends and family put into it. Gratitude doesn’t stop at just gifts though. Down-to-earth people are grateful for the lives they have, the people who are in it, and where they are. They stop and remember that they’re fortunate for everything they have been through and where it’s gotten them, too.
10. They accept people no matter what.
Down-to-earth people don’t judge others based on their looks, culture, religion, sexuality, or gender. They get to know people for who they are deep down. They understand that people are more than what meets the eye and they find it important to truly know someone before they make any decisions.
11. They fit in with just about anyone.
Going to social events can be stressful for some people, but for down-to-earth people, it’s easy. These individuals are the type who can talk to anyone about anything. And, they oftentimes make new friends anywhere they go. They can even go somewhere alone and feel totally happy and comfortable.
12. They’re always open to learning more.
When they don’t know something, down-to-earth people are ready and willing to listen and learn. Instead of being offensive and naive, they do their research on topics that they’re not so well versed in. This way, they can avoid offending people or even coming from the wrong place.
13. Fake isn’t in their vocabulary.
Down-to-earth people keep it real all of the time. They don’t put on a front, they don’t feel the need to be fake or phony. Instead, they own who they are and keep who they like around them—they don’t feel the need to fake it with anyone.
14. They go with the flow.
Some people need to plan every moment of their day, while down-to-earth people can easily adjust and go with the flow. Instead of being upset when things don’t work out the way they thought, they just change their course and keep moving. Nothing phases them in that way.
15. They know who they are.
Social media trends and popular things don’t influence down-to-earth people the way they may influence others. These people aren’t swayed easily by what’s going viral online. They know who they are deep down and don’t feel the need to change just to fit in and conform.
16. They don’t need constant reassurance and communication.
Down-to-earth people are the type of friends that you can not talk to for weeks or months, but when you see them, it’s as if nothing changed. These friends are the ones who are low-maintenance and you can keep on read without it truly bothering them.
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