Signs The Sexual Tension Between You Is Getting Out Of Control

Maybe you’re out on a first date, or you’re sitting next to your crush in class. Maybe you’re just looking up at your favorite singer during a concert. No matter what situation you’re in, the signs of sexual tension are always the same. That means anyone, even the worst flirt in the world, can figure out where she stands with a man. If you’re not exactly sure how to do that yet, here are the many signs of sexual tension getting a bit intense.

Eye contact is intense. Maintaining eye contact with your creepy uncle can feel uncomfortable, but holding eye contact with your crush? Piece of cake. When you like someone, you’ll want to stare into their eyes all day long. That’s why prolonged eye contact during conversation, or while you’re all the way across the room, is a huge sign of sexual tension.

He uses flirty body language. You should pay attention to his body—and not just his abs. Leaning toward you while you speak means that he’s interested in what you’re saying. Even better, it means he wants to get close to you emotionally and physically. Mirroring your movements is another positive sign that shows all of his attention is on you. The same goes for when he preens by smoothing down his shirt or by fixing his hair.

The silences are sensual. Comfortable silences fall under the category of relationship goals. Of course, it’s even sweeter when those comfy silences are filled with a dash of sexual tension. You’ll know it’s happening when the two of you haven’t said a word in an hour, but he’s still gazing at you like you’re the most interesting girl in the world.

Your conversations take a playful turn. Harmlessly teasing you about your college major or music taste is the adult equivalent of pushing you down on the playground. After all, when you like someone, you want every conversation to be lighthearted and fun, so that they keep coming back for more.

His touches are stimulating. When someone on the bus bumps into you, you won’t feel anything. But when there’s sexual tension between you and the person who brushes against you, you’ll feel the electricity rush through you. It’s impossible to miss.

Every conversation has context. If even the most innocent conversations feel naughty, then there’s definitely sexual tension between you two. There’s no reason for a conversation about your mole removal to be steamy. If it somehow takes a sexual turn, then your minds are both in the gutter together.

His voice deepens when you’re alone. The “Batman” voice is actually a good sign. Men instinctively deepen their voices when they’re talking to a woman they find attractive, so if you notice a change in pitch when he talks to you, his body is cluing you in on his crush.

He lingers when he should leave. You might’ve learned this from Will Smith, but if a woman lingers by her door after a date, it means she wants a kiss. The same theory applies to men. If he lingers after hugging you, then it means that he’s waiting for some more touching to occur.

You sit a little too close together. Most people like their personal space. If a man is sitting so close to you that your shoulders touch, there’s definitely a spark there. Otherwise, one of you would’ve slid over a few inches.

You both feel incredibly aroused. It takes two to create sexual tension. If you experience a tingling sensation down below, then it’s clear you’re attracted to him. Lucky for us girls, all we have to do is take a glance at his crotch to see if he’s just as attracted to us.

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