Having a powerful personality might make you worry that you’re coming across as loud and controlling, but it’s actually about being strong, confident, and authentic. It’s the little things you do that make others want to respect you, so if you’re doing these things, it’s no wonder you’re held in such high regard by everyone you meet.
1. Your Body Language Is On Point.
Whenever you communicate with people, you make sure your body language is strong and confident. No slouching or darting eye contact here! You walk tall, have relaxed posture, and smile. This serves you well because people tend to gravitate towards others who display self-assurance.
2. You Don’t Just Listen To People — You Truly Hear What They’re Saying.
You might be an effective speaker, but you’re also an exceptional listener. You don’t just listen to people, you actively listen to them. You engage in meaningful conversations, pay attention to people, and use follow-up phrases to show that you’re engaged with what they’re talking about.
3. You Don’t Wear Masks.
Instead of faking how you feel and interact with people, you express yourself clearly. You’re genuine and honest with people without resorting to being overly harsh or blunt, which is what makes people respect you. You know people would much prefer to be told the truth than to hear a lie.
4. You’re Decisive.
If someone asks you what you want for dinner, you don’t say, “Dunno” or “Whatever you like.” You know what you want and go for it because you’re strong and confident. This extends to bigger life decisions as well, from the job you take on to where you want to live. You have no problem making what you believe is the right choice because you truly back yourself.
5. You’re Empathetic.
One of your most powerful personality traits is your ability to empathize with pretty much anyone you meet. You care about people and try to put yourself in their situation so you better understand their feelings. You’re a supportive person that people see as genuinely kind — no wonder they respect you.
6. You Override Stress.
During challenging times, you don’t allow your stress levels to overwhelm you. Instead of losing your cool, you stay calm and chilled so stress doesn’t obstruct your ability to think clearly and creatively. You also surround yourself with people who reduce your stress. No drama = a more peaceful existence.
7. You Trust Your Instincts.
Life doesn’t always show you the right way to go, especially if confusion and stress are dominating a situation. That’s no problem for you — you can tap into your instincts and follow your gut. When you rely on your inner wisdom, you exude a centered, confident ability that people feel they can trust.
8. You’ve Got Firm Boundaries.
Without boundaries, people can walk all over you. By knowing your limits and setting healthy boundaries, you give yourself the respect you want from others. You also stay strong in your values and choices. It’s so true that we show people how to treat us, and you expect to be treated with respect.
9. You’re Resilient.
While life sometimes loves throwing you curveballs, being powerful means that you can rise above your challenges. You don’t let them keep you down for long. After taking a short self-reflective break, you’re up and at ’em with a positive, determined outlook. You know you can overcome anything with a bit of perseverance.
10. You’re Open To Opinions And Feedback.
A truly powerful person doesn’t allow criticism to affect them, but they’re open to hearing what others have to say. This is smart ’cause they can pick and choose what they want to learn from others. It’s all about self-growth.
11. You Don’t Have To Say You’re Powerful.
When someone’s really powerful and strong, they don’t have to go around telling everyone they are. Same with how you don’t have to tell people you date that you’re nice. It’s your behavior that shows the world what you’re really about.
12. You Collaborate Instead Of Control.
You’re not the type of person who tries to control others, whether that includes your co-workers or partner. Instead, you’re always keen to collaborate and include those around you so you can find common ground. You appreciate different ideas and know how to work with others.
13. You’re Passionate.
If you’re passionate about your interests and dreams, you’ll be magnetic to others. There’s nothing more appealing than someone who’s bright-eyed and sparkly because of their passions. It’s inspiring and encourages everyone around you to go after what they want too.
14. You’re Cool With Silence.
Unlike people who lack self-assurance, you don’t have to try to fill all the awkward silences you encounter in conversations. You can relax and use the silence to self-reflect. This makes you great to be around because you exude a powerful yet calming presence. That inspires confidence in people and makes you someone they can trust.
15. You Stand Up For Your Beliefs.
If you see injustices around you, you’re the type of person who won’t pretend they’re not happening. So, if you see someone being bullied in the workplace, you’ll report it. Ditto for neighbors who are mistreating animals or social media trolls. You take a stand for what’s right.
16. You Don’t Crave Approval.
Instead of wanting other people’s attention and approval to feel good about yourself, you know that your self-worth is what matters more than what others say about you. This prevents you from being desperate for their attention. You can be open to others’ opinions, but they don’t define you.
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