10 Signs You’re His Girlfriend Even If You Haven’t Had “The Talk”

Don’t believe the haters when they say you can never turn a booty call into a relationship. It may not be the norm, but it can certainly happen. He may not officially ask you to be exclusive, but he’ll show his commitment to you in other ways. Here are some subtle signs there’s nothing casual about your situation and you’re actually his girlfriend:

He’s in constant contact.

The guy who always blows you off and doesn’t check up on you isn’t serious about you at all. But the guy who’s in constant contact and always reaching out to you already sees you as someone important in his life. If he’s excited about where things are headed with the two of you, he’ll want to text and call you consistently. Usually, a day won’t go by without him reaching out and letting you know you’re on his mind.

You’re all his on the weekend.

When a guy’s juggling other options, his weekends will be jam-packed with various dates and activities. If the guy you’re seeing is always trying to dominate your time on Fridays and Saturdays, it’s a pretty clear sign that you’re the only one on his radar.

Secrets? What secrets?

He’ll be open and honest with you because he has nothing to hide. If he’s MIA for a few hours, he’ll gladly offer up an explanation, and if he can’t spend time with you on a certain day, he’ll open up and let you know why he’s busy. The kind of guy that doesn’t keep secrets will answer his phone in front of you. Most importantly, he’ll keep his cell phone face up when the two of you are together.

He’s fine with just cuddling.

He doesn’t always want nor expect sex, so spending the night cuddling is perfectly fine with him. This shows that he has deeper feelings for you and is open to connecting on an emotional level. You’re definitely not a fling—you’re already his one and only.

Sexual exclusivity is a thing.

If the two of you are sexually exclusive, you might as well consider yourself his girlfriend. Showing that he’s only intimate with you proves that he’s committed to you in every way possible. He’s no longer out playing the field and trying to see how many women he can bag. He’s more than happy to get intimate with you just you.

You’ve met the important people in his life and vice versa.

You’ve already had the proper introductions with his friends and family, but the truth is, they probably knew everything about you before you even met them. A guy who’s in relationship mode will want to share the one he adores with all the important people in his life.

Your cycle doesn’t freak him out.

When it’s that time of the month, he doesn’t avoid you like you have the Bubonic plague. He also doesn’t pout because he knows he won’t betting any for a week and he’s perfectly fine with just hanging out without sex being involved. Not only is he a keeper, but he sees you as more than just a casual fling.

He’s really obvious.

He won’t play silly games that most people in the dating world swear by. He’ll tell you his feelings right off the bat, and he’ll never hold back on telling you how amazing you are and how beautiful you look. He doesn’t have time to beat around the bush.

The future’s on his mind.

He’ll casually bring up future trips the two of you can take or ask you what your plans are far in advance. He’ll also talk about “adult topics,” such as buying a house and having kids. The main focus of these topics will always be you. He’ll want to hear your feedback and will also make sure you know that you’re apart of his future goals.

You’re the only one in the picture.

There’s no ex-girlfriend lurking around the corner, his most recent booty call isn’t still hitting him up on Snapchat, and he cut off all his admirers that couldn’t take a hint when he told them he just wanted to be friends. He makes it clear to any other woman he comes in contact with that he’s not interested because he only has eyes for you.

It’s all in his actions.

 He’s not just blowing smoke up your ass and talking about all the things he wants to do for you. He’s actually turning his words into actions. The guy who sees you as more than a fling will be sweet and kind. He’ll surprise you with little gifts, take you out on impromptu dates, and he’ll always show you how much he cares. He doesn’t hesitate to do these things because in his eyes, you’re already his main squeeze.

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