Why You Should Fall In Love With An Understated Woman

Introverts are often misunderstood. At first glance, they can appear disinterested or rude, but once you get to know them, you’ll realize that an amazingly passionate and generous heart lies beneath the surface. If you invest your time in getting to know the introverted girl, it will definitely pay off. She’s great at love, for these 8 reasons and more:

  1. She’s smart. Introverted women are intellectuals and profound thinkers. They enjoy reading and tend to be very educated, even if they’re self-taught. Having a smart girl on your team is always a good call, because she’s beautiful on the inside, too.
  2. She’s the best listener. She might not be the biggest talker in the world, but she’s still into having a conversation. She’s interested in what you have to say and makes a great listener, so you know your voice will be heard and valued.
  3. 3. She gives you space to do your own thing. So what if she doesn’t want to go out every night of her life? When you date an introvert, you get plenty of space to do your own thing and have a life outside of the relationship.
  4. She’s secure. She understands that other people need more time socializing than she does, so she doesn’t get jealous when you go out and talk to other people. As long as you never give her a reason to distrust you, she’ll assume all you’re doing with other women when she’s not around is making small talk.
  5. She’s independent. Introverts always have a small circle of close friends that they can turn to during the rare occasions that they can’t handle something on their own. This makes them fiercely independent in a relationship — the introverted girl never needs to rely on a man for anything.
  6. She’s exciting. She gets bored easily with small talk and parties, but she’s always down to have an exciting adventure. Introverts tend to love traveling and having romantic weekends away where you can explore, just the two of you. She may seem tame at first glance, but she’s actually more exciting than the girl who parties every single weekend.
  7. She’s a free thinker. She won’t let others influence her thoughts and actions very much. She makes her own judgments and does what makes her happy, even when people think she’s being silly. Trivial things will never interfere with your relationship, because she’s disinterested in being petty or having ridiculous dealbreakers based on society’s unrealistic idea of a perfect relationship. If she wants to be with you, she will- end of story.
  8. She’s loyal. Introverts make fierce connections with the few people they bring into their inner circle. If she loves you, the introverted woman will be the most loyal and loving partner you could find. She cherishes the people considers friends, and you will always be able to trust her.
Holly Harris is a freelance writer, full time student, and mommy to a toddler sass monster. In her (nearly nonexistent) free time, you can find her lifting something heavy in her home gym or chugging vodka sodas with friends. She contributes to several other sites, including Elite Daily.