Have you ever met someone and thought you could feel an emptiness there, like something was truly missing? Maybe they give a vibe of being untrustworthy or that they’re just going through the motions of life without having a purpose. It can be unsettling, but it’s not all that uncommon. Here are 17 signs that someone in your life doesn’t have a soul.
1. They Don’t Show Empathy.
If they’re speaking to someone who’s crying, a person who lacks a soul might just stare at them or look confused. They just don’t seem to grasp emotions or have a skill for understanding what other people are feeling. Dealing with their lack of emotional depth can be so disturbing.
2. It Feels Like They’re Faking Emotions.
Although they might laugh at the right time during conversations or ask you how you’re doing, something just feels “off.” It’s like they’re putting on fake emotions to get through their relationships. They lack authenticity and it’s very clear to everyone around them because there’s nothing behind their eyes — just a blank space.
3. They Hold Grudges.
They might struggle to express emotion, but they’re holding onto grudges for dear life! They get so mad thinking about people who have hurt them in the past. It’s actually scary to see how angry they get. There are clearly other issues there, but their lack of emotional expression makes it challenging for them to deal with them.
4. They Lack Ambition.
Someone without a soul doesn’t seem to have a reason to get up in the morning. They don’t have a strong sense of drive and ambition to chase their dreams. Heck, they might not even ever talk about what they want out of life. That’s because they never really think about it. They’re just floating along, happy with the status quo (or at least uninterested in changing it).
5. They’re Cynical About Other People’s Dreams.
When other people express their dreams, someone without a soul will quickly shoot them down. They’re always cynical to the point of pushing others away, like they’re carrying a ton of negative energy everywhere they go. They don’t think it’s worth aiming for anything in life, and that’s pretty sad.
6. Their Eyes Are Dead.
No matter how physically attractive they are or how charming they might seem on the surface, when you look at them closely, it’s like someone shut off the light in their eyes. Their eyes look dead, and it’s chilling. You can tell they’re not internalizing anything and it makes you wonder what’s really going on in their heads.
7. They’re Use Being “Busy” As An Excuse To Isolate Themselves.
They might always claim to be “too busy” for anything, but this could be a way for them to avoid others. They want to be on their own and not feel forced to engage in conversations or build relationships. Being busy keeps them away from everyone, and that’s how they prefer it. When they’re alone is the only time the can take off the mask they wear.
8. They Look Away During Conversations.
In addition to seeming a bit dead behind the eyes, someone without a soul might struggle to make and maintain eye contact. When chatting to them, it might feel unsettling how they keep looking away. It’s like they can’t handle any sort of human connection. It’s clear they’re very uncomfortable when you try to look them in the eyes, as well — they scramble to get away as soon as possible.
9. They Lack Remorse.
When they do something wrong, they always blame someone else for it. They never own up and take accountability for things they’ve done. It’s like they think they’re always the victim of someone else’s wrongdoing. They’re not interested in self-reflection or evolution, so they refuse to think about it.
10. They Lie And Steal.
People without a soul tend to use manipulative tactics to get their way. They have no problem with lying, stealing, and cheating to use others to achieve whatever dark goals they have. They don’t experience guilt or compassion for the people they hurt, so they’re able to do things like this without hesitation.
11. They Don’t Have Any Friends.
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The issue isn’t that they’re introverted or shy — the problem is that no one likes them. Ouch. Everyone who’s interacted with this person will tell you that they’re shady or untrustworthy. So, it’s no wonder that they don’t have a trusted circle of friends. People might tolerate them on an acquaintance level, but the more they talk to them, the more they realize this person has no soul.
12. Their Words Sound Scripted.
When they speak to you, sometimes it feels like they’ve rehearsed their words or they’re reading from a script. Whatever comes out of their mouth never sounds genuine. You’re always left wondering if they just pulled some phrases from the internet that they thought would sound good.
13. They Hate Animals.
Someone who lacks a soul has no appreciation for beautiful animals. They might think that all animals are annoying to be around or they just don’t have an interest in them at all. This could be because they have so much negativity and it’s spilling out into everything. Not everyone has to be crazy about pets, but to actively be against them indicates something darker within them.
14. They Lack Energy.
This person seems to be walking through thick mud wherever they go. It’s like they’re dragging their feet around because they have no energy or enthusiasm about anything. It’s not that they’re insanely busy or that they have a lot going on in their lives — they’re just kinda floating through, and their lack of passion and enthusiasm drains their energy (and the energy of everyone around them).
15. They Don’t Have A Purpose.
They might just go through the daily motions of their life, like waking up, going to work, then going home and going to sleep. There’s nothing else in their life that makes them feel happy they’re alive. They don’t have hobbies or interests and they never get up to anything in their spare time. It’s kind of sad, really.
16. They Only Think About Themselves.
People who lack a soul struggle to feel, so how can they ever meet another person’s needs and wants? They only care about what they need and brush off other people’s emotional needs. This is why getting into a relationship with them will make you feel as apathetic and angry as they are. Run!
17. Their Hugs Are Cold.
When you hug someone, you want to feel their warmth and care. You won’t get that when you hug a soulless person. Their hugs feel cold and rigid, like they’re filled with dread at the mere thought of having to hug someone. That’s probably because they are!
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