Want to be someone people can’t help but enjoy spending time with? There’s a certain magic to genuinely fun and likable people, and it goes beyond simple tricks. By developing a few key qualities, you can become the person others gravitate towards for good company and genuine connection.
1. They’re down for whatever.
Fun people are flexible and game for anything. They don’t need a perfect plan — they’re happy to go with the flow and see where the day takes them. Indecisive about hitting the beach or the bowling alley? They’re cool with either. Favorite taco spot too crowded? No worries, they know an awesome hole-in-the-wall nearby. Fun people adapt on the fly and find enjoyment wherever they land.
2. They assume the best.
As Forbes notes, the best people always give you the benefit of the doubt. They don’t take things personally or jump to negative conclusions. Running 10 minutes late? They won’t assume you’re disrespecting them — probably just traffic or a wardrobe malfunction. Said something that came out wrong? They’ll gracefully help you re-phrase. Fun people default to charitable interpretations that keep the vibe positive.
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3. They’re unshockable.
Fun people have seen some stuff, so nothing fazes them. You can confess your most embarrassing moments or edgiest opinions without fear of judgement. They’ll take your mortifying middle school stories or controversial political views in stride. Fun people make you feel safe letting your freak flag fly.
4. They’re not trying to impress.
They’re not focused on flaunting their status or success. They’re secure enough to be self-deprecating and vulnerable. They’ll freely admit what they suck at or crack jokes at their own expense. Ordered something inedible? Bought tickets for the wrong night? Wiped out on a banana peel? They’ll be the first to playfully roast themselves. Fun people put you at ease by not taking themselves too seriously.
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5. They keep it light.
Fun people don’t get mired in heavy topics for too long. They’re not allergic to serious discussions, but they know when to shift to a lighter gear. They’ll empathize with your breakup pain, but also remind you of your worst date story to make you laugh through the tears. They seem to have a knack for gently guiding conversations to sunnier places.
6. They’re curious question-askers.
People who are great to be around are fascinated by you and ask tons of questions, Inc. reveals. They dig beyond surface level chat to unearth your quirkiest stories and most original ideas. What’s the weirdest hobby you’ve tried? The most amazing meal you’ve eaten? The biggest epiphany you’ve had? Fun people make you feel interesting by prodding for the good stuff.
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7. They’re utility players.
Fun people have diverse interests and abilities they can bust out as needed. They may not be experts, but they can hold their own in a range of domains. Need a sous chef, Settlers of Catan partner, or salsa dance instructor? Fun people will rise to the occasion with enthusiasm. Their well-rounded knowledge and skills make them invaluable in any situation.
8. They say yes to serendipity.
They embrace spontaneous opportunities when they arise. They’re open to taking detours and making pit stops to check out that roadside attraction or pop-up art show. Stumbled across a free concert in the park? They’re already kicking off their shoes to dance. Fun people lean into chance encounters and unexpected adventures.
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9. They like their own company.
Fun people don’t need constant entertainment or interaction to be content. They’re happy chilling solo while you take a phone call or grab a nap. You don’t have to worry about keeping them occupied every second. Fun people are self-sufficient and can amuse themselves until you’re available again.
10. They bring the snacks.
Fun people always have the hookup on munchies and goodies. They know a killer day requires killer provisions, so they come prepared. Whether it’s gourmet chocolates, old school Fruit Stripe gum, or their famous homemade trail mix, fun people keep the crew fueled up and feeling loved.
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11. They diffuse awkwardness.
Fun people have a gift for gracefully glossing over uncomfortable moments. Tense political debate erupting at a party? They’ll smoothly segue to a funny anecdote. Cringe-y comment from your tipsy boss at happy hour? They’ll swiftly redirect to spare everyone the secondhand embarrassment. They’re skilled social ninja who neutralize weirdness without missing a beat.
12. They find the fun in the mundane.
People who are fun to be around don’t need big flashy plans to have a blast. They can turn even the most basic activities into a good time. Doing laundry at the laundromat? Time for a folding race and a soap sud battle. Stuck at the RMV renewing your license? Perfect chance to play I Spy and sketch silly portraits on the forms. Fun people bring the party to any situation.
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13. They know the best spots.
Fun people are walking Yelp reviews for hole-in-the-wall eateries and under-the-radar activities. They have the scoop on which dive bar has the most legendary open mic night, which taquería serves the most fire burritos, and which beach is best for spotting sea glass. Tired of the same old haunts? Fun people will hook you up with fresh options.
14. They’re free with the compliments.
They’re generous with genuine, specific praise. They hype up your karaoke skills, kitchen mastery, or eyeliner technique with zeal. They make a point of noticing and celebrating your talents and efforts, no matter how trivial. Won a llama breeding competition? Regrouted your bathroom tile? Fun people will be your loudest cheerleaders.
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15. They’re low-maintenance.
Fun people don’t require a ton of money, planning or primping to enjoy themselves. They’re not pressed about hitting the hottest club or Instagramming from the trendiest festival. They don’t need designer clothes, 5-star restaurants, or VIP treatment to be satisfied. Fun people can make a $5 pizza and a six-pack on the stoop feel like a Michelin starred experience.
16. They’re not flakes.
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Fun people follow through on their commitments. They won’t bail last minute because something “better” came up. If they say they’ll help you move, bring the guac to the potluck, or be your plus one to your cousin’s wedding, you can count on them to show up. Fun doesn’t equal unreliable. Fun people prove they value you by being true to their word.
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