Ah, going downtown: revered by many, feared by others. Whether or not you enjoy doing it or you only bless your man with it on a special occasion, here are some things that every girl from beginner to novice should know about going downtown.
Slobber is good.
For some reason, there’s a tendency to not want to spit on people (call it common courtesy), but when it comes to downtown antics, wetter can be better. A dry rub is much more difficult to pull off successfully, due to the tugging in strange directions.
It’s different with every guy.
When you talk about whether or not size really matters, you’re not usually referring to getting down. Of course, this is going to change things dramatically from person to person. One guy might be a piece of cake to get off, while another can’t even fit in.
You should definitely use your hands.
Yeah, the idea is to get it in your mouth, but most people can’t get it all in (or not for long), so keep a hand on there and work them both at once. He doesn’t care, he just wants it to feel good.
He’ll enjoy being teased.
Just the way that you probably like a teasing and warming up, he does too. Kiss his thighs and the shaft of his penis first instead of just shoving it in your mouth.
Licks are good.
When your mouth gets tired of holding it all, switch to taking long licks from the base to the tip, keeping in mind that the top is particularly sensitive. Keep your tongue flat as opposed to pointy for the most coverage and comfort.
Apply suction without being a vacuum.
You’re not literally trying to suck anything out of him, but some gentle suction will create more skin on skin contact than if your mouth is more slack. It should build naturally if you keep your lips close when you move up and down.
Don’t be afraid of the other dangly bits.
You’ve heard it a million times not to ignore the little buddies, but what exactly do you do with them? Experiment with stroking them and gently massaging them like you have those little meditation bits in your hand.
Ease up when he’s coming.
Once it’s happening, it’s happening, and things tend to get way more sensitive. While you shouldn’t back off completely, you can release some pressure so you don’t hurt the guy.
Swallow… if you want.
A lot of guys prefer when girls take it down the hatch like pros (who knows why?), but it’s your body, so only do what you’re comfortable with. There’s a lot of debate on how many calories are in semen, but the average guess is less a calorie per ejaculation. Just in case you were worried.
If you relax, you might enjoy it, too.
Yes, it can be done really badly, but most people don’t get great at things without practice. If you’re ever unsure about what he likes, just ask him – he probably has a whole list of his favorite moves ready to go. If he’s happy, you’re more likely to be, as well.
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