If there’s one thing narcissistic people love to do, it’s use words and phrases that paint themselves in a flattering light. They’ll stop at nothing when it comes to positioning themselves as better than everyone around them, even if they have to brag, exaggerate, or outright lie to get there. Here are some of the things you’re likely to hear coming out of their mouths.
1. “I’m not like most people, you know.”
This one’s a classic ego boost disguised as a humble brag. The person saying it wants you to think they’re a rare breed, something special. It’s their way of saying, “Look at me, I’m better than everyone else.” (Spoiler alert: they’re not.) But really, it’s just a thinly veiled attempt to stand out and feel superior. They want to be seen as unique, but it comes off as trying too hard to be different.
2. “I had an incredibly unique experience recently.”
Here’s a sneaky one. By talking about their “incredibly unique experience,” narcissistic people are definitely not just sharing a story – they’re fishing for your admiration and envy. They want you to think their life is more exciting than yours. It’s less about the story and more about them trying to impress you with how extraordinary their life is. Chances are, the things they’ve experienced aren’t actually all that special or different, but they want you to think they are.
3. “Most people find me attractive.”
Dropping a line about how hot they are and how people can’t keep their hands off them is a blatant call for compliments. They want you to confirm their attractiveness. It’s self-validation served up on a platter, hoping you’ll bite. They’re not really sharing an observation; they’re fishing for an ego boost, plain and simple. It’s actually kinda sad. (If you’re sick of coming across people like this in the dating world, let our sister site, Sweetn, help you out. They have all the tips and tricks you need to change your love life for the better. You can visit them here.)
4. “I handled that situation better than anyone else could have.”
This is pure bragging rights material. They’re not just telling a story; they’re making sure you know they’re the hero of it. They want to come across as smarter and more capable than anyone else. It’s boasting with a side of ‘look how great I am at handling things.’ It’s less about the situation and more about pumping up their own ego.
5. “People often say I’m ahead of my time/an old soul.”
By claiming that everyone believes they’re just so wise and mature, the narcissist is trying to paint themselves as deep, complex, and above everyone else. It’s a subtle way of saying they believe they’re more insightful than everyone else (especially you). It’s a self-compliment wrapped up in false modesty. They’re basically patting themselves on the back without directly saying, “I’m smarter than you.”
6. “I don’t think anyone understands things quite like I do.”
Oh, here we go. This line is all about setting themselves up as the misunderstood genius. They want you to believe they’re on another intellectual plane. It’s a not-so-humble brag about their supposed unique insight. It screams, ‘I’m special because I see the world differently.’ But let’s face it, it’s just a way to make themselves sound more interesting and superior in understanding.
7. “People always tell me how different I am from everyone else.”
This one’s a favorite in the narcissist’s playbook. It’s their way of saying, “People notice me because I stand out.” They’re aiming to be seen as unique and special, but it comes off as fishing for validation. They’re not just different; they’re noticeably different, according to them. It’s a roundabout way of fishing for a “yes, you’re so unique” response.
8. “In my opinion, it’s hard to find someone as talented as me.”
Talk about laying it on thick. This phrase is straight-up self-adulation. They’re essentially saying they’re a rare talent, a cut above the rest. It’s not just confidence; it’s an overblown sense of self-worth. They want to be seen as exceptionally gifted, but it just comes across as arrogant.
9. “I usually have a better way of doing things.”
Classic obnoxious know-it-all territory. They’re implying that their methods are superior, and everyone else is just fumbling around. It’s an ego-driven way to say, ‘I’m smarter than you.’ It’s not about collaboration or different perspectives; it’s about asserting their supposed superiority in problem-solving.
10. “It’s rare to meet someone on my level.”
This is elitism, plain and simple. By saying it’s rare to meet someone on their level, they’re placing themselves on a pedestal. It’s a way of saying, ‘I’m in a league of my own.’ It reeks of arrogance and a need to feel superior. They’re not just confident; they’re overconfident, to the point of dismissing others’ abilities.
11. “I’ve achieved things most people could only dream of.”
This one’s a bragging bomb. They’re not just talking about their achievements; they’re putting them on a pedestal. It’s like saying, ‘I’m not just successful; I’m unbelievably successful.’ It’s a way to make you think they’ve conquered mountains while everyone else is playing in sandboxes. But honestly, it’s just a self-promotion tactic with a side of condescension.
12. “I tend to think outside the box more than other people.”
Here we have the classic “I’m so creative” line. By saying they think outside the box more than others, they’re trying to position themselves as the innovative maverick. It’s their way of claiming they’re more creative, more original, more… whatever, than the average person. But really, it’s just them trying to sound smarter and more inventive than they probably are.
13. “People usually really like hearing my perspective.”
This phrase is all about painting themselves as the fascinating one in the room. They want you to believe that their thoughts and opinions are so captivating, people can’t help but be drawn in. It’s a subtle way of saying, “I’m interesting, and you should be interested in me too.” But between us, it’s more about their need for attention than any genuine intrigue.
14. “I’ve always been a natural leader.”
Ah, the born leader claim. They’re essentially saying they’ve always been at the top of the pack, the one in charge. It’s a way to assert dominance and superiority without directly saying, ‘I’m better than you.’ They want you to see them as a natural authority figure, but it often comes off as just being full of themselves. It’s less about actual leadership qualities and more about wanting to be seen as the alpha.
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