He told you he wanted something real, but really, all he wanted was a one-night stand. It’s a story that too many women are able to tell. If you’ve ever been used for sex, here’s what you need to know:
Not all men are scumbags. Some of them are more interested in your brain than your boobs. Some of them will actually stick around to cuddle with you after they orgasm. Some of them will make you feel like the most beautiful woman in the world, even when you’re fully clothed.
He’s the real problem. Don’t ask yourself what you’ve done wrong, because he’s the one who screwed up. He’s either afraid of how badass you are, afraid of being whipped, or afraid of something real. He’s the one with the issues, not you.
You’re not a sex object. Don’t act like his behavior was normal. You’re not a toy that men can play with, and then toss aside when they get bored. You’re a valuable human being, and you should be treated as such.
Casual sex isn’t a sin. Don’t feel like your body is tainted, just because some douchebag tricked you into sleeping with him. It doesn’t matter how many men have run their hands across your skin. You’re still the same beautiful person.
You’re not an idiot. Men can be manipulative, so don’t feel like a fool for believing that he actually liked you. It happens to everyone. You wouldn’t have been able to see his betrayal coming.
You don’t need to sleep with someone to make them like you. If you’ve been used for sex again and again and again, then you might be fooled into believing that your body is the only thing you have to offer. Of course, that’s not true. You’re so much more than your body, which is why you don’t have to agree to sleep with a guy in order to get him to like you.
Don’t hate on sex. You shouldn’t see sex as a game for men, and a chore for women. It’s meant to be an intimate experience to bring two people closer together. When you find the right man, you’ll realize how magical and meaningful sex can be.
Be proud of your body. He didn’t appreciate your beautiful brain or sense of humor, but at least he appreciated your body. You’re sexy as hell. That’s why he was willing to lie, steal, and cheat in order to get you into bed.
Don’t have sex if you don’t want to have sex. If you’re having sex with him in the hopes of getting him to settle down, rethink your plan. You should only sleep with him if it’s what you actually want to do. Otherwise, you could easily get screwed over again.
You’d make a great girlfriend. He only wanted you for sex, but that doesn’t mean it’s the only thing you’re good for. If a man gave you a chance, you’d be the best girlfriend he ever had.
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