Sometimes, you just have to be honest with yourself. If the guy you’re dating is beating around the bush and stringing you along, you have to cut the cord if it isn’t what you’re looking for. You should know whether you’re in a relationship or not, and there shouldn’t be an in-between. And if he’s not the one telling you, then you should try to put it into perspective. Here are 10 signs that he’s just playing you and it’s time to walk away.
There are way too many girls talking to him.
Whether it’s through text, Facebook, Instagram, etc., there are an overly suspicious amount of girls commenting or reaching out to him. Maybe he does just have a lot of female friends, or maybe he’s simultaneously talking to multiple women at the same time. Either way, you should draw the line somewhere.
He only contacts you when he wants to “hang out”.
You don’t hear from him all week unless he wants to meet up for a drink or have you come over. He doesn’t ask how your day went or what you did over the weekend. His sole reason for contacting you is to meet up and have sex, but there should be some form of communication when you aren’t together.
The only time he wants to hang out is when it’s convenient for him.
Whenever you ask him to hang out, he’s never available, but if he asks you to chill, you know you have to cancel your plans and drop everything because you know that you’ll miss the window if you don’t. It shouldn’t be that way. He should want to see you as much as you want to see him and there should be some flexibility.
He’s extremely private about his personal life.
He doesn’t tell you anything – not a single secret or personal detail. He keeps to himself and he never opens up about what’s going on in his life. There needs to be some form of intimacy when it comes to getting to know each other, otherwise he could be hiding something from you.
He doesn’t want to meet your friends.
Every time you ask him to hang out with you and your friends, he always says no. He doesn’t want to socialize or inter-mingle; he only wants to hang out with you alone, which means he’s probably not that serious about you.
He doesn’t want you to meet his friends.
He never invites you to hang out when he goes out with his friends. Even if you ask, he doesn’t include you in fear that you’ll be just another girl he was seeing for a brief period of time.
He always backs out on plans at the last minute.
If you have plans scheduled in advance, he always ends up backing out at the last minute and you’re always left feeling disappointed. He’s not reliable and he never follows through when it comes to concrete plans.
You’ve never actually gone on a real date together.
You meet up for drinks, veg out at his place, or just hook up when you’re together, but you’ve never actually had a sit-down dinner in public or had a real date night.
He never stays the night.
Even if it’s late at night, he never wants to stay over your place and always finds a reason to go home. If you’re at his, don’t even think about bringing an overnight bag, because you won’t be there that long.
He avoids labeling the relationship.
If you ever try bringing up the “What are we?” talk, he calls you crazy, reassures you don’t need a label, or just completely avoids the topic. He never wants to talk about it, and months later, you realize you’re still in the same exact situation.
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