Is He Interested? 14 Ways To Know If He Wants You For Sure

Guys think they’re being obvious about their feelings, but sometimes it’s hard to tell. All you want are some clear signs he wants you. Is that really too much to ask? If you don’t overthink it, the signs are a little more clear, at least. Stop driving yourself crazy wondering and start looking for them. Remember, as long as he’s noticed you, there’s always a chance he’s interested.

Of course, if you’re still not sure, give him some clear signs yourself. Some guys just aren’t that great at letting you know how they feel. I know, big surprise there, right?

He’s always around. 

A guy isn’t going to waste his time on a woman unless she’s a really good friend or he wants her. He’ll make all kinds of excuses to spend a few extra minutes with you. He’ll even give up time with his friends just to say hello.

He’s Mr. Nervous. 

Does he seem confident around his friends and then turn into a fidgety klutz the moment he gets near you? That’s a major sign (though one he’d rather hide) he’s into you. He wants to impress you, but the fear of making a mistake turns him into a nervous wreck. It’s kind of cute actually.

Personal space doesn’t matter anymore. 

Guys prefer body language over words when it comes to showing you how they feel. A guy who likes you is more likely to invade your personal space. He stands closer and might even try to stand close enough to casually touch you.

He’s ready to do girl things. 

Is he super excited to see the latest rom-com with you? Maybe he’s thrilled to check out that strange art exhibit you know he doesn’t understand. Why does he do it? He wants you. It’s amazing what guys are willing to do to get in your good graces, even if it means turning in their man card temporarily.

He introduces you to his friends. 

When a guy starts introducing you to his friends, it means he wants you to be around for a while. It’s also his way of telling all his guy friends that he say you first. What can I say? Guys like to mark their territory. Just be glad he’s not peeing on your leg.

His appearance improves. 

Did he look like he just fell out of bed when you first met? Was his idea of fully dressed a stretched out tank and saggy jeans? If he starts cleaning himself up and making an effort with his appearance, he’s definitely interested. Be proud you’ve made such a difference in him already.

He can’t take his eyes off of you. 

Even if you’re not physically close, you notice him watching you. Not only is he mesmerized by you, but he’s making sure no other guys are approaching. The more focused a guy is on you, the more likely it is he wants you. Of course, it might not hurt to check your hair and makeup to make sure nothing weird’s happened.

He gets cutesy. 

Is he showing you adorable cat videos or sending you cute emojis? You know that strange phenomena where our voice changes when we’re around babies? Guys do something similar when they find a woman they want. They know we love cute, so they get cutesy to draw us in.

He actually listens to what you say. 

I’m not sure why this doesn’t continue, but any guy who really wants you will make an effort to listen to what you have to say. Try talking about the latest celebrity breakup. If he seems interested, he’s probably interested in you.

He tells you he wants you. 

Don’t overthink this one. If he says he wants you, he means it. It’s the most obvious sign. Trust me when I say he’s not trying to trick you. A guy doesn’t say this unless it’s true.

He touches you often. 

Does he lightly touch your leg or arm while talking? Does he push a stray strand of hair behind your ear? He wants you and can’t help himself from taking every small opportunity to touch you. These sweet little touches show he both respects and wants you.

It’s easy to make him jealous. 

Bring around another guy or flirt with another guy when he’s across the one. How does he react? If he gets jealous easily, then he’s into you. You might not be his, but he’s working on it and he doesn’t want any other guy around.

He texts day and night. 

I’m not talking about late night sexts either. I’m talking about genuine texts to see how your day was or what you’re up to. He loves talking to you and he texts often just to keep himself at the top of your thoughts.

He follows you on social media immediately. 

Women aren’t the only social media stalkers. If he’s already sent you a friend request before you get home, he wants you. He’s just using social media to learn more about you and interact with you more.

See, it’s not that hard to tell if a guy likes you. Unlike us, they’re a bit more obvious. If you see more than one sign, you don’t even have to guess anymore.

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