When the going gets tough in your relationship, what do you do? Do you leave the man you love behind, or do you fight for him? I’m not talking about literally fighting, but do you even try to make him see that you’re perfect together? When it’s right, you know it in your heart, mind and gut. That means you don’t give up without a fight.
The only time it’s not worth it is if you know for certain the other person doesn’t love you at all and never will. Otherwise, it’s worth at least trying. You don’t have to beat a dead horse, but the ‘what if’ will always weigh on you if you don’t do whatever you can to keep your relationship on the right track. Your future happily ever after could hinge on fighting for the one that you know is made for you. Here’s why it’s worth the effort:
You’ll prove you truly love him.
Sometimes the relationship isn’t going so well at the moment and your partner doesn’t really think you love him. Don’t just accept that as a reason for them to leave. Fight for them and prove you love them. That’s all they wanted all along.
He deserves your best try.
If this is the person that fills your heart with happiness and love, doesn’t he deserve to be fought for? Wouldn’t you want him to fight to keep you? If he’s worth spending your life with, he’s worth fighting for.
He might not know how you feel.
If you’re not good at showing your emotions, your partner might not even know how you feel. You may have been inadvertently pushing him away. This means it’s time to fight and show him exactly how you feel. It’ll take more than words, so be ready to fight hard to prove you mean what you say.
Nearly anything can be worked out.
A few disagreements, petty jealousy, and compromising as a couple are all issues that can be worked through, but often make couples split. Unless it’s cheating or something even worse, you can work through it. Don’t give up. Fight for your love.
You know he’s The One.
You know deep inside that this person is the only one for you. It’s not a crush or lust – you can’t imagine life without him. He truly makes you a better person. If that’s the case, you should always fight to keep him.
If you’re not willing to fight, it wasn’t really love.
You hear women talk about how many times they’ve been in love. However, if it was true love, then they’d be fighting for that person. If you’re not willing to work hard to get him back, it probably wasn’t love to begin with.
It’s not over until you let it go.
Just because your partner said goodbye doesn’t mean it’s over. It just means you have even more incentive to fight for him. As long as you hold on and keep fighting, it’s not really over yet. As long as you still love him, don’t let the relationship be over forever.
Love takes work, and this is just part of it.
Love itself isn’t enough to make a relationship work. It takes far more. When things go wrong, you have to do more than love the person to make him stay. It takes compromise and constantly showing each other that you are in love and that it’s worth working as hard as possible for.
You’ll always regret it if you don’t.
You might think it’s best to just let them go. The problem is you’ll always live with regret. Any time you think of him or see him, you’ll wonder what might have happened if you’d just fought for him a little. Don’t let regret eat you alive. Go ahead and try and see what happens.
The timing isn’t always perfect.
You know how you feel about a guy, but the timing is all wrong. That doesn’t mean it can’t work. Don’t let him forget about you. Keep in contact and let him know how you feel. Do whatever you can to stay in contact so when the time is right, the two of you can be together.
You’ll be miserable with anyone else.
As long as you’re still in love with one person, you’re not going to be happy with anyone else. When you’ve found your soul mate, no one else will make you quite as happy. You might be content, but it’s not the same. You’re not just fighting for someone you love, you’re fighting for your own happiness.
You know he loves you.
It should be obvious, but if you love him and you know for certain he loves you, of course you should fight for him. Hell, he should be fighting for you, too.
Fighting for someone you love isn’t some outdated concept or myth. It’s something you sometimes have to do to keep the one you love most. It’s not always easy, but it’s always worth it.
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