You’re catching the feels for the person you’re dating, but you’re not 100% sure if they feel the same. Maybe they sometimes give you mixed messages or you analyze their texts until you’re dizzy and unsure what’s going on. It’s frustrating to say the least. Take a breath and read these 12 signs that they’re falling in love with you – there’s no doubt about them wanting to take your relationship to a more serious level.
1. They Say “We” A Lot.
Someone who’s always talking about themselves and saying what they want from the future isn’t keen on sharing it with you. By comparison, if the person you’re dating says “We” a lot, Â you’ll feel like they’re including you in their future plans, which is a good sign they’re keen on more than a casual thing.
2. They’ve Seen Your Ugly Cry.
One of the real tests of someone’s feelings for you is to see how they react when you go through a tough time. When you’re sobbing in front of them, do they freak out? Or, do they go AWOL when you express frustration about your job in a text to them? If they’ve seen you at your worst and they’re still with you and supporting you, they’re in it for the long haul.
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4. They Build You Up, Not Break You Down.
Someone who’s into you for real will want to build you up and support you, not break you down or make you feel bad. So, check for relationship green flags such as that your partner cheers you on, reminds you of what makes you great, and reminds you that you’re amazing when you’re feeling low. That’s what you want in someone who loves you, and this person surely does.
5. They Keep You In The Number-One Spot.
When you’re with your partner, they make you a priority. They don’t keep checking their phone when they’re in your company (so annoying), and they pay attention to you when you’re in a group setting instead of leaving you alone at the table. You feel that you’ve got their undivided attention no matter what.
6. They Introduce You To Their Special People.
Once you’ve been dating for a while, your partner is keen to introduce you to people in their life that they love, like their folks or best friends. By letting you mingle with people whose opinions they value, this is a good sign that they see you as a part of their life and social circle. By comparison, someone who never lets you meet anyone they hang out with is dodgy ’cause they’re compartmentalizing their life and keeping you out of certain areas.
7. They Come To You For Advice.
They’re not just eager to give you advice, but they’ll come to you to ask you for advice when they’re stuck in a sticky problem. It’s clear that they value your opinion and aren’t afraid to be vulnerable around you. Their walls are down and they’re letting you into their life, thoughts, and feelings. This is a good omen for a relationship that’s supportive and makes you feel like you’re on a team.
8. They Find Your Quirks hot.
It’s such an amazing feeling when you’re accepted by the person you’re with, like when they find your quirks hot even though these quirks are what cause you to sigh in front of the mirror or complain to your friends. When someone values you for who you are RN, not who you can be, they’re showing you that they love you.
9. They Talk About Your Friends Liking You.
So, you’ve met the person’s family and/or friends. What next? When they tell you that their loved ones really liked you, they’re showing you that you’re accepted and cared for. Maybe their friends are asking them about you and already seeing you and your partner as having a great relationship. Green lights, baby!
10. They Remember Deets About You.
When your partner surprises you with dessert, they remember that you don’t like anything with cherries in it or that you’re leading a gluten-free lifestyle. When planning a romantic getaway, they know you hate the aisle seat on a plane. They listen to what you say and remember important details about you so that they keep you happy.
11. They’re Never Too Busy For You.
When your partner tells you that they’re busy at work, you don’t have to worry that they’re hinting they won’t have as much time for you. Even if their busy schedule restricts some of their spare time, this doesn’t stop them from seeing you as much as they can and continuing to contact you via text or phone call.
12. They Actively Listen.
They listen to you, sure, but they’re actively listening and paying attention. They’re tuned into what you have to say and take the time to ask you follow-up questions. They make good eye contact when speaking with you and reflect on what you say. Active listening makes you feel heard and valued by the person you’re dating.
13. They Respect Your Boundaries.
What’s love without respect? Nothing. If the person you’re dating knows your boundaries and respects them, they’re showing you that they’re not going to be some disrespectful jerk who wastes your time. So, if they know your personal boundary is that you don’t like people rocking up unannounced at your home, they won’t do that. When you say “no” to a last-minute date, they don’t throw a childish tantrum. They’re mature and serious about you. Ooh la la.
